- Jul 25, 2017
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yeah im not touching the Allie topic around you with even a 100 foot pole. Because we go about talking about it differently you use your hatred and use real world reasons that don't matter to me when it comes to this subject. Because anytime ive talked about the whole Allie VS V thing I only go in using my PERSONAL feeling and nothing else and that's all that matters to me. I don't need real world examples of why it would or wouldn't work or what might or might not happen , just does not matter to me.Lol what ?? Do you hear the contradiction in your wording ??You can't be in an unhappy, sexless relationship, where the arguing is more frequent than the love and respect part of it and also be in love with your woman or her with you, cuz it's like saying you can be a devout religious person or traditional man during the day and a serial killer or something 'nice' like that during the night. It don't make any sense as an argument, but it makes for a good joke.
Plus, explain this to me... if Allison loved the MC sooo much and really wanted to make the marriage work, seeing how she got all butthurt and emotional about it when he confronted her, why did she not put enough effort to do just that and refused to listen to his problems and have sex with him ?? An attractive woman like that in a sexless relationship or marriage like theirs is a ticking time bomb, bro'. There's no "if" she'll cheat on her man in this example, it's just a big "when" and "how many times". No judging from me. Hell, I'd do the same if I somehow had the stomach to put up with a woman like Allison's bullshit and constant nagging.
That right there is the problem... you're too emotional about a fictional example, generalize shit based on how you think relationships work as opposed to how they really do and how other ppl make them work or not, while I also add reality to the equation. If she neglects you, doesn't respect you, doesn't care about your opinions and problems, prioritizes various other stuff over your relationship, she don't love you, man. You roommates with benefits at best, not a married couple, and an attractive woman like Allison will always have way more options than a guy like the MC does, realistically speaking. So no, her staying the loyal, butthurt lil good girl after the divorce is the devs' way of stylishly dodging a nuclear missile filled with all the hatred and 'feedback' you can read in a lot of other non NTR game threads and just that, nothing profound about it. Instead, they focus all their hate on V's bipolar clingy, needy big ass while trying to sell us the lie that she'd make for a good wife, only for a few hours a week lol.
Also, neither the MC, nor Allison are exactly average-looking ppl, even for porn game standards. Sure, they can't brag about their finances or invites to posh parties to socialize with 'good' ppl from high society, but both of them would have it pretty easy on dating apps and dating in general, especially Allison, which is why I say her reactions sometimes are complete nonsensical female bullshit at work.
If you had those fond moments most, if not all of us, would've AND a kid, would you still leave her if she kept ignoring you and treated you as harshly as Allison did the MC prior to their divorce and after it ??
Sorry, but I'm only human. Love and respect need to be mutual to make things work out smoothly, if they ain't, we don't have a relationship anymore, we should find other ppl to love and move on with, but we can't make that lil kid disappear, so we'd have to at least tolerate each other for his/her sake without throwing spiteful remarks 24/7.
I will answer some of your replies tho. I do get how that statement is a bit of a contradiction it's hard to explain. But to me sexless marriage and unhappy one are separate. I would want sex but dont need it in a marriage when all I care about is how we feel towards one another. Also there is different levels of unhappy marriage it's hard to say if it would of been to much for me or not without seeing more of it and no one wants that.
I'm a very forgiving person so as long as I personally think there is some kind of relationship or love to be had I would put up with it and attempt to fix it as long as I still care and loved her if I was Jake is all I was saying. Also im not the MC so clearly things would be different , for one I do not have any kind of backbone and would be whipped and do most of what Allie told me most likely. As I'm a very shy and introverted person and I would think I would be lucky to even have someone like Allie. So yeah id put up with alot. I was more saying if it was me what I would do.
