- Jun 23, 2018
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I think it's ultimately wrong to keep someone as your FWB when they quite obviously have feelings for you. Jake should have either broken up with her or entered the full relationship long ago; instead, he kept using her for her professional support and sex either until she got completely heartbroken and broke things off herself or until circumstances forced him into accepting her for at least some stability in his desperate situation (yeah, that's how I interpret his decision on her path - I think he doesn't really love her either way, he just wanted to stabilize the situation).
Jake is at fault for their relationship problems, just like he was the guilty party with Allison. His thing with Veronica can still be salvaged however, and I'll make sure he does it on my watch.
As for the competition… It shows how unhappy and desperate she really is, and I feel for her, even though she shouldn't really pay any attention to Jasmine.
I'm not disagreeing with you, but ultimately, she's a mature woman who has to realize that just because she wants someone, doesn't mean that they want them. It's already hinted multiple times that she tried to make herself something more in his life, and failed spectacularly.
She built up this idea that he somehow owes her a relationship because she has been his pillar of support, and although he does cherish her for that, I do believe that he has made his stance well known several times. She still kept pressing. I doubt Jake would've hated her/cut her off if she took sex off the table, because ultimately, he was not with her for sex alone.
Reality is, she thought she could get more out of damaged goods, and was surprised when the damaged goods were actually damaged. That is squarely on her. I can say that Jake isn't a good dude, which he himself admits as much, but he does try to bring himself back into shape once he realizes just how down the rabbit hole he went (in the non-dick version of his dialogue/behavior), which begs the question as to how much of a savior complex she has when despite all that, she keeps trying to 'fix him'.