Witch tag is most preferable in your search.
Why not make the game you want to make, with a story you love, game mechanisms you can handle, and kinks/fetishes you know about ?
Wanting to please everyone will lead you nowhere.
Firstly, because the few hundreds (if you are really lucky) who will answer are just a small part of the 5 millions members of this site, who themselves are just a small part of the people who will potentially want to play your game. Therefore, those answers will tell you nothing.
Secondly, because those few hundreds will all give a different answer. Therefore, in regard of all the opinions, you'll probably have nothing that will goes above the 20%.
Thirdly, because you'll have to make a game with a story that will not be totally yours. Therefore, instead of being a pleasure, it will be a burden.
Fourthly, because you'll perhaps have to implement game mechanisms that you'll hate, or don't fully understand. Therefore you'll struggle with them, and not take enough time to debug them.
Fifthly, because you'll perhaps have to write about kinks/fetishes that disgust you, or for which you know nothing. Therefore, even the more hardcore fans of them will hate your game full of stupid clichés.
And all this for what ?
To have a consensual game ? There's no consensual game. You can pick any game you want, you'll always found people to say that it's overrated, when they don't say that it's deep shit.
To have a successful game that will make you earn tons of money ? Limiting to Patreon, there's less than 5% of the creators who earn enough to live from their passion. Most of them are on the scene since years, and it's the reason why they earn so much. As for the others, around 50% don't even earn enough to pay for their monthly grocery list, and around 20% can't afford a beer/week with their earning. Still limiting to Patreon, you'll be one among ~5,000, and you'll start the same month than ~30 others. Your game will need more than appealing tags to be tried, because there will be two/three games that will come out at the same time and with the same tags.
Do what you really want, and perhaps you'll succeed one day. And if you don't succeed, it will not be such a problem, because at least you'll take pleasure doing it, and interacting with the players. But if you try to please everyone, you'll be soon forgotten, like all those who tried before you.