I havent experienced the blowjob problem but every time I got the message that Rogue or Kitty wanted to meet with MC on his room and they dont show up i just go to their room at evening or night and the dialog triggers, i think its worth testing if happens with Emma tooTwo things I've found that have gotten old while playing the game. I don't know if anyone else is having the same thing in their game.
One, no matter what your lust settings are when you decide to go to sleep, if you are with a girl, they always wake you up with a BJ.
Two, every morning Emma keeps want to meet my MC in his room but she never shows up. Every morning.