interesting...is that what i should use when he caughts me doing the deed with the girls in certain parts of the campus?
Precisely, but it only works per specific girl. If you blackmail him to not bother you anymore after he catches you fucking kitty in public, he will leave you alone and you can have fun with kitty in public from there on, but if you do it with rogue in public next time, he will catch you again and you will need to deal with the situation again.
>wanting to lower obedience
What is wrong with you people?
Submissive slaves who hate themselves for wanting it but can't help but do it are the best.
I agree and disagree with both a lover and slave. A lover has too much free will. A slave doesn't have enough love.
I prefer max love and max obedience with no inhibitions left. It's the best when she gives you full control over her life from her own free will because she's entirely infatuated with you.
I guess we're all playing the game for different reasons. To each their own.