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dduck7929

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You do realise that every fetish has a point of inception? For example if you see a country or a culture having more pronounced one fetish than the other it means that there are some social-engineering things at play. Not saying that someone tries to make every S/M fan or Cuckolding fan, i'm trying to say that some things that are happening in our life/society are pushing you towards specific fetish.

Normally it's localized and there aren't much fetishes at all or they are somewhat distributed without much pronunciation.
Japan is a cuck nation (not really the main fetish but out of all countries Japan i think is #1 in cuckolding fetishsm).
This is due to their culture and their social rules that are perfect breeding grounds for that fetishism.

Now my question is what changed in western world that cuckolding fetishsm is on the rise? If you think it's natural, i envy your ignorance and bliss from enjoying without brooding over it.

I analyzed my fetishes, and every one of them had point of inception that started me on this path. What i don't know, is what was the cultural catalyst for the cuckolding fetish in western countries began to rise up.
Why are western men becoming submissive and/or prone to seeking pleasure from coping mechanism. (NTR gives you pain but at the same time it gives pleasure as a coping mechanism).

Almost every fetish inception point is known to psychology (reasons for it happening). What is interesting is when it happens en-masse and what cultural triggers made it happen.
That's crazy that the basis for your take on Japan being a "cuck nation" is "i think". You don't have any evidence suggesting it is, I'm sure there are no studies done on it, so you are just assuming based on the porn or other content that's available online.
Cuckolding have been a thing for a while, you can trace it back to even roman times where they were a lot more secure with their fetishes than today. There's evidence of cultures that used to share their women with travelers. You can look all this up. I had an uncle who lived with his wife and another male in the same house, and we knew the kids were not his, but no one in the family said anything because it's their life (this happened in the west btw). Look up rumors of slave owners who practiced cuckolding and the mixed children they left behind in the south. Cuckolding is not a new thing, you're trying to find a pattern or theorize something and find a trend when you need to realize that we are more connected through the internet than ever. Most these fetishes used to be shared among like minded people that happen to live in a small area code, now through the internet we are able to find other like minded people and form our own communities. just look up where the world cuckold is trending the most in google trends since 2004 and it's Myanmar, not even the west. But to be honest the word is different in each language so it's probably a different country.
There is no propaganda here, or a secret mission to corrupt the west. You're trying to form a theory that doesn't exist. I believe the rise in these searches and content are because people are getting more comfortable with themselves and find it no longer necessary to hide it from society since they can share these things over the internet. I gurantee that if you go outside you will not see couples with a third partner or if you travel to Japan you will realize that cheating is not the norm or NTR or whatever is not the norm. Don't let things online affect your judgement, the world is a big place we just find like minded people easily online now than before.
 

Hersom9912

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You are right that people often trace their own interests back to a moment. Where I think the big picture gets fuzzy is assuming a single cultural switch flipped for everyone. What looks like a boom is mostly a visibility story. During the pandemic, overall porn traffic jumped and stayed elevated for months, so niche tags were simply seen more. That is documented both in peer reviewed work and in platform summaries.





Cuckolding sits inside a broader cluster of fantasies about consensual nonmonogamy. Those fantasies are common, and a nontrivial share of people try some form of CNM at some point in life. Best estimates put lifetime experience around one in five among singles, with about five percent currently in CNM at any given time. That helps explain attention without claiming a personality shift in all Western men.




Taboo and curiosity matter too. Researchers like Justin Lehmiller have shown that transgression itself can be arousing, and they have even studied cuckolding fantasies directly. Media chatter around the word cuck in politics likely amplified searches by teaching people the term. That is salience, not proof of a moral slide.





More supply online, more time online, plus a label that traveled fast. That adds up to higher visibility. It does not prove that men became more submissive or that a whole culture engineered a single kink.



I just wanna eat some guys cum outta my wife's pussy, bro. Chill the fuck out.
Thank you for the info. Will try to read some.
It does not prove that men became more submissive or that a whole culture engineered a single kink. <- I clearly stated that there wasn't an objective to make male population submissive. I stated that there are some elements in our culture now that are changing the trend.

Be it overall testosterone decrease. Cultural shift from patriarchal structure or something else. The fact of the matter is that it is happening. With knowing what and why you can reproduce or at least place it in your arsenal.
So the questions is it more due to social factor or maybe due to biochemical?

In any case you understood me more clearly than some other commenters below and i'm thankful.
 
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Thank you for the info. Will try to read some.
It does not prove that men became more submissive or that a whole culture engineered a single kink. <- I clearly stated that there wasn't an objective to make male population submissive. I stated that there are some elements in our culture now that are changing the trend.

Be it overall testosterone decrease. Cultural shift from patriarchal structure or something else. The fact of the matter is that it is happening. With knowing what and why you can reproduce or at least place it in your arsenal.
So the questions is it more due to social factor or maybe due to biochemical?

In any case you understood me more clearly than some other commenters below and i'm thankful.
I'm suggesting that nothing at all has really changed. Merely that visibility of this specific kink is on the rise, due to a number of factors. Men aren't becoming more submissive (Not saying that you're claiming it, just re-iterating). CNM is not particularly trending, demographically. It's also worth noting that submissive sexually doesn't necessarily translate to being submissive in reality. I like the idea of "cleaning up" after my wife, but I'm not a particularly submissive man outside of that.
 

Hersom9912

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That's crazy that the basis for your take on Japan being a "cuck nation" is "i think". You don't have any evidence suggesting it is, I'm sure there are no studies done on it, so you are just assuming based on the porn or other content that's available online.
Cuckolding have been a thing for a while, you can trace it back to even roman times where they were a lot more secure with their fetishes than today. There's evidence of cultures that used to share their women with travelers. You can look all this up. I had an uncle who lived with his wife and another male in the same house, and we knew the kids were not his, but no one in the family said anything because it's their life (this happened in the west btw). Look up rumors of slave owners who practiced cuckolding and the mixed children they left behind in the south. Cuckolding is not a new thing, you're trying to find a pattern or theorize something and find a trend when you need to realize that we are more connected through the internet than ever. Most these fetishes used to be shared among like minded people that happen to live in a small area code, now through the internet we are able to find other like minded people and form our own communities. just look up where the world cuckold is trending the most in google trends since 2004 and it's Myanmar, not even the west. But to be honest the word is different in each language so it's probably a different country.
There is no propaganda here, or a secret mission to corrupt the west. You're trying to form a theory that doesn't exist. I believe the rise in these searches and content are because people are getting more comfortable with themselves and find it no longer necessary to hide it from society since they can share these things over the internet. I gurantee that if you go outside you will not see couples with a third partner or if you travel to Japan you will realize that cheating is not the norm or NTR or whatever is not the norm. Don't let things online affect your judgement, the world is a big place we just find like minded people easily online now than before.
My feelings and thoughts:purely from interest in sociology and psychological standpoint i saw this trend growing.

You are placing this defensive stance without even fully comprehending my messaging. (Excluding the first one i made here, this one was just a counter jab, which criticised not the fetish but immature assholes).

Propaganda? I told CLEARLY there are some things happening in our society that create 1 or another fetish as A BYPRODUCT. It would be silly to think that someone wasted billions to make population love golden shower more....(though i would not exclude that there might be some very eccentric people).
Usually the reasons are localised.
But something happened that shifted the direction. Problem? There were too many changes and thus too many variables.

What i see is that you throw LEARNED FROM MEMORY defensive words towards your liked fetish group. As if you read but didn't read instead you read and saw something different.
By the way i did not judge this fetish in any of my comments. It's not my cup of tea but i stand by the stance as long as your dick isn't or wasn't in my cup of tea do what you will.
I have my set of fetishes that is not normal and by the way cuckolding is not normal too. I do not considering fetish "normal" i consider it divergence from the norm.


As for calling Japan a cuck nation? Yeah wasted quite a bit of time and my I THINK doesn't come from fapping and then contemplating for 5 minutes.

Initially it was my confusion in Japanese media representation i.e. not hentai or hentai doujin. I saw a pattern that general media somehow started representing different outlook and promoting different character sets. I watched anime read manga/novels. Studied some of Japanese history prior to my interest.
Even their cuckolding fetishsm is slightly different to western cuck fetishsm. They are more in the realm of mental whilst western is more about physical.
Next point is their culture is predisposed towards cuck/bull mentality unlike other cultures.
I've wasted around 15 years on learning bits and pieces about Japan and Japanese culture and i've been doing it consistently.( no, not only anime/manga/games, saying this just in case if you once again will assume something)
 
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i miss when ntrman made the betrayal feel more visceral. Lust voyage and the first two episodes of seasons of loss were brutal. arrival of the goddess started off strong, but she turned into a meme towards the end. Idk, the last 3 releases have felt sort of lukewarm to me.
 
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dduck7929

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Thank you for the info. Will try to read some.
It does not prove that men became more submissive or that a whole culture engineered a single kink. <- I clearly stated that there wasn't an objective to make male population submissive. I stated that there are some elements in our culture now that are changing the trend.

Be it overall testosterone decrease. Cultural shift from patriarchal structure or something else. The fact of the matter is that it is happening. With knowing what and why you can reproduce or at least place it in your arsenal.
So the questions is it more due to social factor or maybe due to biochemical?

In any case you understood me more clearly than some other commenters below and i'm thankful.
I think - and this is not based on any evidence so this is just my idea on the subject of men becoming more submissive. Fetishes were always part of humanity, we're curious things, we develop unusual desires. Hitler used to be into scat, he probably ate a big ol brown one from his cousin if the rumors were true. But fetishes aside, I think we just don't have a true purpose anymore. Countries like Japan and countries in the west have advanced so much they have reached a point where men have no time to even raise families. Work life balance is fucked, men and women still live with roomates past age 30 because rent is too high, most don't even think about marriage and dating is not easy these days when its easier to swipe left and right on someone based on looks. The apps itself are cuckolding men because there's always a better choice if you are a woman. This is what gave rise to the incel culture.
I don't think there's something out there socially engineering men to be submissive, I think men are adapting to today's world where being a simple, less threatning and soft spoken man is much more socially acceptable.
I have no evidence to back up any of this so I could totally be wrong.
 
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Hersom9912

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I'm suggesting that nothing at all has really changed. Merely that visibility of this specific kink is on the rise, due to a number of factors. Men aren't becoming more submissive (Not saying that you're claiming it, just re-iterating). CNM is not particularly trending, demographically. It's also worth noting that submissive sexually doesn't necessarily translate to being submissive in reality. I like the idea of "cleaning up" after my wife, but I'm not a particularly submissive man outside of that.
Perhaps. But western nations in general became less domineering. I value it like scales between domineering attitude and submissive attitude. For example politics, social elements and even sexuality started showing more of submissive side if for example compared to 20 years and even more so to 70+ years.

As for you specifically it's completely normal. Same as masochists are found among powerful people. You look at them during normal business hours and they might be domineering or neutral but during their intimate time they need to lose "control". I.e. usual inception for masochism is loss of control due to having to overextend control during other times.

Submissive actions in bed do not translate towards submissive nature. Though as i stated there are some flash points in life that weirdly make you more aroused to some elements than the others. My flashpoints were painfully obvious due to them being openly pronounced and to some degree typical and they were localized.
By localization i mean a random life factor that wasn't due to work/education or social norms or rules. (In other words it affected only me, similar actions might affect others BUT totally a random factor)

Whilst shifts in gender dynamics and or changes in major laws might give of mass shifts in fetishism in countries/cultures.
For example among muslim population you might find a different set of fetishism hierarchy than in christian.
 
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I think - and this is not based on any evidence so this is just my idea on the subject of men becoming more submissive. Fetishes were always part of humanity, we're curious things, we develop unusual desires. Hitler used to be into scat, he probably ate a big ol brown one from his cousin if the rumors were true. But fetishes aside, I think we just don't have a true purpose anymore. Countries like Japan and countries in the west have advanced so much they have reached a point where men have no time to even raise families. Work life balance is fucked, men and women still live with roomates past age 30 because rent is too high, most don't even think about marriage and dating is not easy these days when its easier to swipe left and right on someone based on looks. The apps itself are cuckolding men because there's always a better choice if you are a woman. This is what gave rise to the incel culture.
I don't think there's something out there socially engineering men to be submissive, I think men are adapting to today's world where being a simple, less threatning and soft spoken man is much more socially acceptable.
I have no evidence to back up any of this so I could totally be wrong.
That's my point that that are some mechanisms (big waves) that are socially engineering large chunks of populations (by product of some changes) towards some fetishes. I'm not saying that someone is targeting and making it as a mission (i.e. conspiracy theory).

As you have stated some reasons: App culture or i will also add hookup culture. Their mission wasn't to make male population submissive (i hope) but it was the byproduct (maybe or maybe there are other reasons).

For example as i stated, men have less testosterone now. And testosterone can be affected both physically and mentally.
If you have loser mentality your testosterone levels will be lower. Or even if you lose in a game it lowers. But on the other hand plastics and some foodstuffs can also affect it.
 
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This is an EXCELLENT time to mention that yes, we have my list that chronicles all perversions of the NTS kind there since there is no pure NTS tag available, feel free to come by and bring your friends!
add my games boss :cry:
 

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It would make sense for NTRman to change its name to NTSman, considering that all of its production is now NTS-themed.
 
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Bruh, why there are so many comments debating about NTR and global/cultural fetishes?? This ain't the United Nations mf
And personally I like sadistic shit because my dad used to beat the shit out of me, not because my culture or low testosterone or whatever tf.

Also, glad to see NTRMan is still around, I'm not a fan of NTR neither but I love his works were it's avoidable. Ppl like me should really stick to those instead of coming here to say "AAAHHH ANOTHER NTR GAME MADE BY NTRMAN, PLS NTR-MAN DO GAMES WITHOUT NTR!!"
 
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DDDamn man finally father-in-law catagory netorare from ntrman.I hope more dev also consider this catagory.It is one of the least explored one.
 
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