If you're complaining about the content in the game. Let's do some math here.
I think the reason it feels like the NTR and submissive male game is because most of Rowan's sraight conquests are with one-off characters you meet during random map events that you may or may not get, while Alexia scenes and gay scenes are fairly easy linear choices. To get the orc camp scenes you need to have high enough sneak for the slave girl and high enough strength/agility for the orc girl. Dryad, Arzyl, Alanthe, Sheena, Orc Girl, Emma, Delane, Tarish are all particularly difficult to get. When I tried to get the vanilla Delane scene (which involved essentially playing through the whole of orciad), I made the choice only to have a skillcheck fail, have Delane get pierced with an arrow and die. And now instead of porn I'm picking out gravestone carvings. In the new update I checked the whole map and couldn't find the village with two girls, it's like the bottom part of the map was gone.
While I do enjoy the parts of the game with Liurial and Helayna in both of these routes Alexia inevitably comes in and understandably gets angry at Rowan over it. Rowan never gets a similar scene even if it's perfectly justified. It's even funnier since the recent scene in the latest update flat out has lazy workers gossiping about Andras fucking Alexia and calling Rowan a spineless bitch, even if that never happened.
The game has a male protaganist and a female protaganist, and in any given run the player is put into the perspective of both.
And that's sort of the problem, since one of two main characters essentially has all NTR content. After the prologue she has a whopping two straight scenes with Rowan, one futa on male scene/threesome, three threesomes, two of which require NTR and a third one which you can walk in by complete accident. At this point both Liurial and Helayna have more vanilla content with Rowan than his wife. Alexia currently has more regular m/f scenes with Andras than with her husband.
Every other Alexia scene is full-on NTR. 11 of them.
So, 4 vanilla scenes (with prologue), four threesomes in some sort of a grey area and 11 scenes of Alexia with other people.
Fun part about the Liurial threesome scene: I chose to push Liurial away and not sleep with her, the threesome scene still appeared, Rowan acted like he slept with her and saying he didn't added 2 guilt points.
If you choose to throw Alexia in a dungeon for four weeks playing non-NTR, she disappears from the room but appears in week end events (i.e. "poisoned")
Overall I believe it's not about the majority of content being NTR, but the majority of Alexia content being NTR.