Dude....calm down. The developer told you more than clearly, it's ALL YOUR CHOICE. So why the heck he should give you ANY hints?
It's a simulation of live...not more and not less. In life you will not get any hints, where your next romance is waiting for you with a 100% chance. YOU got to find out.
So..lean back, calm down, dive into the story and PLAY THE F***** GAME, as it should be played...and stop whining about not available hints or something, because everything you're whining about are parts of life, everyone has to go through...and if you don't want to do it...JUST PLAY ANOTHER GAME !