So, why the hate on NTR?

[Icarus Media]

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

Diving In again to dip my toesies into the ant hill of pain.

Looks like you are mostly getting along!

I think it's great and I also think a successful relationship has to have both parties able to try to give more than the other and not just take, be able to vocalize if something is missing or upsets them, and be able to accept that if you fight nobody really wins you both lose and it strains everything. Get good at losing and not holding a grudge about it. Get over stuff quickly.

And of course even with all this sometimes people are just assholes and do stupid things because I think some people are just wired to hate a good thing. They have to destroy it, and the grass is always greener on the other side.

Biggest killers I have seen are a lack of communication & an unwillingness to truly compromise (see it as favors now 'owed' or resent giving something up, keeping score etc). Another huuuge one honestly as well seems to be peoples social groups, some people fall in with a new crowd (or a dynamic within that crowd changes) and that group act like termites to a previously healthy relationship.

 

[Asia Argento]

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Son, do I look like Winterfire to you? Shiiiiiit.

 

[MissCougar]

Biggest killers I have seen are a lack of communication & an unwillingness to truly compromise (see it as favors now 'owed' or resent giving something up, keeping score etc). Another huuuge one honestly as well seems to be peoples social groups, some people fall in with a new crowd (or a dynamic within that crowd changes) and that group act like termites to a previously healthy relationship.

I've seen these too and more. There are so many things tha and variables to impact people it's a dictionary length list.

If people are compatible and both of them want to continue, and put effort into it, it probably will. Lots of people don't, or do but after years of compromise they find the last compromise and the end of their patience. It's all very sad but it happens constantly.

 

[peterppp]

Ahhh, there's the shitty meme, probably gone now but will dismantle the joke of a word salad response

what?

So to be clear you are arguing that an abbreviation of the japanese term derived from English is the only abbreviation, and that Lolita complex has never, ever been abbreviated to anything

what? i explained the linguistic evolution and that there is an english word meaning the same thing. it that was too hard to follow, too bad

OK einstein, give me the english equivalent to
Futa
bukkake
shota
ahegao

never said there were. they still dont automatically become english words. by that logic, any foreign words not having an english equivalent are english words. that's just silly

Cuckold is far clearer to an English reader than 'netorare'. Which was the point I was making, there are going to be people unaware what netorare means who would avoid cuckold content but instead learn the words meaning the hard way mid game.

dude, if you werent so stuck trying to defend your mistakes and deflecting, you would have seen i already agreed to that. or cucked, as you said then

perhaps cucked would have been better.

however, what i've repeated and you have ignored is that you suggested two tags to replace netorare:

Just seems that tagging is still a little unclear at the moment. A cucked tag is pretty obvious (cucked + romance = netorare).

one moment you're saying cuckold/cucked is a replacement for netorate, then you're saying two tags are a replacement (it isn't). what was that about confusing?

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

what? i explained the linguistic evolution and that there is an english word meaning the same thing. it that was too hard to follow, too bad

Languages also evolve within themselves. The English word can and has also be abbreviated... it doesn't just sit there in 'ye olde' English waiting on the Japanese to adapt it, then abbreviate it. Two things can independantly arrive at the same destination... and both languages can use the same abbreviation.

never said there were. they still dont automatically become english words. by that logic, any foreign words not having an english equivalent are english words. that's just silly

If something is encountered and there is no word for it, then whatever the local dialect describes it as is adopted to fill the gap... some other languages sometimes invent a new word or significantly change it, English generally just incorporates the other languages word as closely as it can (and it may then evolve over time) 'thug' adopted from encountering indian 'thuggee' bandits for example.

And yes, those four terms have been adopted into english. No term will come along to replace them. Bukkake is here to stay.

We call the fast trains in Japan bullet trains because they were initially planned as 'dangan ressha' & we have words for bullet and train. We do not have a word for Futa. So Futa is now the word for Futa.

however, what i've repeated and you have ignored is that you suggested two tags to replace netorare:

one moment you're saying cuckold/cucked is a replacement for netorate, then you're saying two tags are a replacement (it isn't). what was that about confusing?

You missed the point of what I was saying to focus on japanese words & pull a 'well aktshually' on something incidental to a point I was making about something also contributing to NTR rage.. I am not going back through this whole shit show with you again so you can willfully misintepret another point & crap on sideways again.

 

[tanstaafl]

A redditor if he doesn'tt use the word 'insecure' at least twice per minute:

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We covered this yesterday. Also, lumping every word you don't like in with reddit just 1. proves my point. 2. makes you seem desperate on top of insecure.

 

[peterppp]

Languages also evolve within themselves. The English word can and has also be abbreviated... it doesn't just sit there in 'ye olde' English waiting on the Japanese to adapt it, then abbreviate it. Two things can independantly arrive at the same destination... and both languages can use the same abbreviation.

lolicon is a japanese abbreviation of lolita complex, so it's a japanese word, not english. the n isn't there in english. lolicon is a genre.
loli is not an abbreviation. loli is the japaense word for the girls in lolicon, not the genre.
loli is not an english abbreviation for lolita complex or lolita. in the adult space, it comes from the japanese word.

If something is encountered and there is no word for it, then whatever the local dialect describes it as is adopted to fill the gap... some other languages sometimes invent a new word or significantly change it, English generally just incorporates the other languages word as closely as it can (and it may then evolve over time) 'thug' adopted from encountering indian 'thuggee' bandits for example.

bandit already was in the english language, but thug found its way in anyway because languages can have synonyms and words with similar or overlapping meanings. like netorare and cuckold. one is a word specific to a genre in the adult space, the other is a word that can apply outside the adult space.

how hard is it to learn a new word that everybody uses for a genre? everyone calls it netorare and if you dont know it, you will quickly learn it.