So, why the hate on NTR?

[tanstaafl]

Netorare has an equivalent, yet we dont use as the tag for some reason. There is no denying this causes confusion & more than 1 person will stumble into 'Netorare' who would have avoided 'cucked'

Oh good, now we can talk about the perpetually mentioned tag update that will never happen (until the 'roadblocks' that F95 mentioned are dealt with).

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

Oh good, now we can talk about the perpetually mentioned tag update that will never happen (until the 'roadblocks' that F95 mentioned are dealt with).

Why so much NTR hate

One suggestion as to why - Netorare has an equivalent english, yet we dont use as the tag for some reason. And there is no denying this causes confusion & more than 1 person will stumble into 'Netorare' who would have avoided 'cucked'.

Its another reason for the OP's question. People working out what Netorare means the hard way.

 

[peterppp]

Netorare has an equivalent, yet we dont use as the tag for some reason. There is no denying this causes confusion & more than 1 person will stumble into 'Netorare' who would have avoided 'cucked'

perhaps cucked would have been better. however, you said this which confuses things

A cucked tag is pretty obvious (cucked + romance = netorare).

so two tags to replace one tag (netorare). which is just bad.

also, i want to remind you of this

if every other kink is in English why is one using the Japanese word.

you've admitted to 4 more japanse words since then. (there are really 5 but i'll let it pass )

 

[tanstaafl]

Why so much NTR hate

One suggestion as to why - Netorare has an equivalent english, yet we dont use as the tag for some reason. And there is no denying this causes confusion & more than 1 person will stumble into 'Netorare' who would have avoided 'cucked'.

Its another reason for the OP's question. People working out what Netorare means the hard way.

Netorare doesn't simply mean cucking if that is what you are implying. Netorare also includes at least one emotional theme on top of the simplistic word cucking.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

you've admitted to 4 more japanse words since then. (there are really 5 but i'll let it pass )

As i stated clearly before, that you are ignoring, for the same reason we use the word sushi but not the Japanese equivalent for soy sauce.

Regarding the other 4, they are japanese words we use because that single word describes something we would take a sentence to otherwise describe. I.e. there is no equivalent word.

Netorare doesn't simply mean cucking if that is what you are implying. Netorare also includes at least one emotional theme on top of the simplistic word cucking.

Scroll up to the part I posted the current tags vs games part & read from there, it (partly) addresses what you are saying, thought the conversation would go that way (you are talking about) but this other guy rocked up in his clown car to debate reality. Happy to go back to talking that direct just wanted to highlight the parts earlier so I can discuss them more going forwards & elaborate.

 

[peterppp]

As i stated clearly before, that you are ignoring, for the same reason we use the word sushi but not the Japanese equivalent for soy sauce.

Scroll up to the part I posted the current tags vs games part & read from there, it (partly) addresses what you are saying, thought the conversation would go that way but this other guy rocked up in his clown car to debate reality.

and you ignored what i said about your suggestion to replace one tag with two which was the salient part of my post

however, i didnt ignore your argument. i saw it and discarded it. it shows a lack of understanding in how languages evolve. but since you insist...

lolita is a spanish word for dolores, used in an english novel. then it became an english word. if you're saying lolita is an english word although it comes from spanish, then loli is a japanese word although it comes from english. or why not say loli is a spanish word? anyway, all this is pointless arguing. you said something that was wrong, i corrected you, you started deflecting.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

which was the salient part of my post

There is never a salient part of your post.

You turn up, try to increasingly pick something apart (that generally wasn't even the point of the post) to start an argument, start to lose the argument when someone actually bothers to engage, then you post a meme, get in your clown car, and disappear.

This is why I will not bother going into anything other than on a superficial layer with you, you are not worth the time (and in this thread I have gone into a lot of detail with some pretty toxic abusive people).

Me - 'Netorare' probably gets hate because its unclear and people walk blindly into it
You - but we use OTHER Japanese words!!!!!!!

I wont be drawn off any further arguing sideways over the color of the sky, address point 1 (in a thread question why the NTR hate)

 

[tanstaafl]

then you post a meme

Nothing wrong with a good meme.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

Nothing wrong with a good meme.

 

[Ennoch]

Nothing wrong with a good meme.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

+1 Good meme
Its funny and on point - its not a smokescreen to run away. Memes are like quoting a line from a movie, right time, right place and right line it is perfect. Then there's some people who blurt out some random shit they once heard and run away.

 

[MWPA78]

Ah, post nut clarity... That magical moment where you look at your partner, the heart full of love, and wonder what you have to done to deserve to be loved by someone so marvelous.
But I have no real doubt that for you, it's just the moment where you wonder how drunk you are.




The majority of men cares even more after having sex, because they have sex with the person they love. But how can you know this, you don't love the person you've sex with, you just want to prove to yourself that you're a man.




See what I said above. Women are so much more than a vagina. And I don't talk about boobs, ass and any other body part. They are human being, they have a brain. Seeing the world through their eyes can be so wonderful, talking with them so entertaining, and I don't even talk about being loved by them.

But I agree on something, you're not an incel. They limits women to an object they want to own, you limits them to a vagina you want to nuts in. Incels care more about women than you do, wanting to be loved by them. But you, you don't care about this, like Andrew Tates you see absolutely no interest to be with a woman, they annoy you, they have no other purpose than to be the fleshlight that permit you to stay in your closet without fear that the world discover that you're gay.
Yet, the more you talk about them, the more your gayness is obvious.




Scots are so jealous, they eat Haggis when it suffice to eat frog legs and snails to be the capital of degeneracy

Thats just your conclusions you came to. I think romantic love is overrated (sexual desire + benevolence) and sex is overrated. A woman can be a wonderful person, but the vast majority today is extremely obnoxious at least in relationships/marriage. That does not have to be the case. I personally had good experiences. But that was an obvious exception when comparing it to everyone else I knew/know.

If a woman is of good behaviour a marriage can be a good thing if you want to found a family, but sex is just a part of it that shouldn't hold that much priority. Sexual desire will never be finally satisfied. Other things are way more important. Therefore worshipping vaginas, and even women, is peak foolishness. Worship something worthy of worship, and treat and lead your wife well.

Having sex with women or not - who cares. Its not of high importance.

Living a good life is of importance.

 

[tanstaafl]

A woman can be a wonderful person, but the vast majority today aren't obedient pets any more and that makes me feel insecure.

Fixed that to what you really mean.

 

[king meme]

Fixed that to what you really mean.

Every day he jerks off, so he's insecure

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

Fixed that to what you really mean.

Pretty sure his last girlfriend got a puncture, now he feels lost

 

[anne O'nymous]

A woman can be a wonderful person, but the vast majority today is extremely obnoxious at least in relationships/marriage.

It need two to be a couple, and when there's a problem with the vast majority of girls, the said problem come from you, not from them.

If a woman is of good behaviour a marriage can be a good thing [...]

It's not different from everything else, if the man is of good behaviour, most of the time his woman will be too.
In the same way than most devs kicked out of Patreon happen to be making an incest game where there's dogs raping underage girls, most guys who complain that they've been cheated on happen to have never really cared about their girl in the first place.

Sexual desire will never be finally satisfied.

Talk for you. There's hundred of millions couples who are sexually satisfied in their couple. But for the sex to be good, it don't just need to be a great lover. It's not something that limits to the moment you fuck, it's something that your starts building way before. Sex is a complicity, and if this complicity do not exist outside of the bedroom, you'll get nothing interesting once under the sheets.

Other things are way more important. Therefore worshipping vaginas, and even women, is peak foolishness. Worship something worthy of worship, and treat and lead your wife well.

The person you love and that you love back is worthy of worship. But, I don't expect you to understand since, once again, your phrasing explicitly point to your total incapacity to see a woman as something else than a sex toy.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

most guys who complain that they've been cheated on happen to have never really cared about their girl in the first place.

This wrong & pretends women are not human as well.

That said, if everyone he meets is the same I'd offer the following advice - if you don't want to attract pigs stop rolling in shit

 

[tanstaafl]

This wrong & pretends women are not human as well.

That said, if everyone he meets is the same I'd offer the following advice - if you don't want to attract pigs stop rolling in shit

I don't disagree that cheaters are gonna cheat, but his point still stands even though nothing is absolute. Guys/girls can lower the chances of being cheated on by respecting and caring about their partner.

 

[suprisedcrankyface]

I don't disagree that cheaters are gonna cheat, but his point still stands even though nothing is absolute. Guys/girls can lower the chances of being cheated on by respecting and caring about their partner.

Yes, but if loving someone meant they loved you back, the world would be a much, much simpler place.

Edit: take for example, the Netorare tag.

 

[tanstaafl]

Yes, but if loving someone meant they loved you back, the world would be a much, much simpler place.

Life is risk and it takes effort. If everyone found the perfect person on the first try the world would be simpler but way more boring.