You need to hit a sore spot to hurt people when insulting.
What's funny with insults, is that you will
always use the words that would hurt yourself, expecting that if it works for you, it will works for anyone else.
Calling a rightwing reactionary an incel might sometimes be true, but most of the times the most anti-women men are jaded chads that grew tired of women and their mind numbing idiocy.
In other words, they are closeted gays who try their best to look manly as fuck.
So you have to find another attack if you care about hurting or humiliating them.
Wait, you still haven't understood that absolutely no one here is trying to hurt or humiliate you?
It's internet baby. How can one feel humiliated because a stranger living on the other side of the world, and who know nothing about you, said whatever about you in a forum?
For anyone who's confident enough, words like "insecure", "incel", "gay", "soyboy", "retard", "autistic" and whatever you want, are nothing more that words defining a personality trait, a mental illness, or a sexual orientation. They are in no way used as insult, just as qualifier.
It's also the reason why no one care about the long diatribe you expect as being humiliating. If people stop to answer, it's not because they are crying, but because you stop being entertaining.
Plus, you're talking to peoples who are so old that they were called "gay" or "faggot", among other names, for everything and nothing during their school years. And this without any intent to insult them. Until high school you would have been called faggot just because you were seated next to a girl in classroom, and no one would have even thought that it mean that you like guys. And god, don't even dare to flirt a bit with her, you would have been called the "gayest gay on Earth" just for this.
While, when put into perspective, it was actually not really the best way to express ourselves, it was just friendly teasing. You would call someone "gay" ten times during the day, and yet call him your best friend and take him hunt for girls at the end of the day.
And if actually he was gay, then we were really annoyed, because it was cheating! How can we playfully mock him if what we say is the truth?
In the end, the only thing you achieved with your post is to show what your fear are, and nothing else. You insulted no one, and the only person that is actually humiliated is you; it's just that you're too blind to understand it.