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So, why the hate on NTR?

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True. NTR is present in the majority people's lives but not everything else.
What i was saying before is I think alot of people use NTR as the punching bag to feel better about their own kinks 'well I just like Guru Scat Bestiality, at least I'm not a cuck'. That and it is such a simple concept to get across, doesn't really take much in the way of understanding it.
 

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I'm waiting for one of these to happen soon. Do you know how many "clean up" messages I've gotten in the last two days?
They should make a trophy (with negative points) for the achievement of getting a thread in OT locked or removed.:devilish::sneaky:
 
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What i was saying before is I think alot of people use NTR as the punching bag to feel better about their own kinks 'well I just like Guru Scat Bestiality, at least I'm not a cuck'. That and it is such a simple concept to get across, doesn't really take much in the way of understanding it.
Personally I think it's more to do with emasculation being an extreme problem for many men more than subconsciously making themselves feel better about other kinks they might have.
 

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What i was saying before is I think alot of people use NTR as the punching bag to feel better about their own kinks 'well I just like Guru Scat Bestiality, at least I'm not a cuck'. That and it is such a simple concept to get across, doesn't really take much in the way of understanding it.
Well, some of those NTR haters are a little hypocritical because in male protagonist games, a female character is called a slut and a whore for cheating by them, but when they play female protagonist games they don't mind doing cheating and being a cum dump for every male character and say: "Yas queen!"
 
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Well, some of those NTR haters are a little hypocritical because in male protagonist games, a female character is called a slut and a whore for cheating by them, but when they play female protagonist games they don't mind doing cheating and being a cum dump for every male character and say: "Yas queen!"
I mean, this is sadly no different from real life where a woman who sleeps with 50 men is a slag, but a man who sleeps with 50 women is a stud.
 
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I mean, this is sadly no different from real life where a woman who sleeps with 50 men is a slag, but a man who sleeps with 50 women is a stud.
There is a reason for that though, the ease of acquirement. Far more women have slept with 50 men than men have slept with 50 women. I am not picking a side, just stating the truth on that.

To be honest that may form another part of the NTR hate 'I finally got one, and this happens' - its a very real fear when getting into a relationship.
 
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There is a reason for that though, the ease of acquirement. Far more women have slept with 50 men than men have slept with 50 women. I am not picking a side, just stating the truth on that.

To be honest that may form another part of the NTR hate 'I finally got one, and this happens' - its a very real fear when getting into a relationship.
I am unsure where you get your numbers from but all the evidence I've seen in the past is that men have more average partners than women.

More to the point though, even if your numbers were accurate, it still wouldn't explain why we penalise one gender over the other.
 
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Internet bias. Reality is different.
Not really. This one is a personal observation, female friends for example can find a rebound very quickly, many of the guys cant. I think this also comes down to social skills as well, so its not simple

I am unsure where you get your numbers from but all the evidence I've seen in the past is that men have more average partners than women.

More to the point though, even if your numbers were accurate, it still wouldn't explain why we penalise one gender over the other.
I have had very close female friends over the years, and not the 'in the friend zone' type. The truth is like you said, one has a stigma, but a friend of mine once gave me some advice which is double what a woman tells you, halve what a man tells you.

Just like there is pressure to be innocent on women, the opposite is true of guys. I also have gone to gay bars with gay friends before, and I can tell you men will offer it alot more than women. Getting a girl is way harder.
 

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I have had very close female friends over the years, and not the 'in the friend zone' type. The truth is like you said, one has a stigma, but a friend of mine once gave me some advice which is double what a woman tells you, halve what a man tells you.

Just like there is pressure to be innocent on women, the opposite is true of guys. I also have gone to gay bars with gay friends before, and I can tell you men will offer it alot more than women. Getting a girl is way harder.
That's entirely fair but also highly subjective. I would prefer to rely on empirical data (and yes some people will always lie).
 
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What i was saying before is I think alot of people use NTR as the punching bag to feel better about their own kinks 'well I just like Guru Scat Bestiality, at least I'm not a cuck'. That and it is such a simple concept to get across, doesn't really take much in the way of understanding it.
What. It's porn. There are either more porn scenes, or there aren't. It's that simple. Quite sure you're getting cucked to the tentacles anyway. In your fetish probably everything else.

There's either more content or there's less.
 
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That's entirely fair but also highly subjective. I would prefer to rely on empirical data (and yes some people will always lie).
In that case look into the empirical date around dating apps

What. It's porn. There are either more porn scenes, or there aren't. It's that simple. Quite sure you're getting cucked to the tentacles anyway. In your fetish probably everything else.

There's either more content or there's less.
Yeh i raised this earlier, all porn in some way is watching someone do someone you want to do yourself. Some people just seem to go further and want to repeat that but with their wife as the girl instead of a stranger.
 
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Only if you think in terms of science and centuries. For living human beings it's a long damn time. Don't try to force a perspective on something that doesn't even require the forced perspective.
It's even recent in terms of humans. I think you're being overly pedantic, and that comes from me - Mr Pedantic
 
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In that case look into the empirical date around dating apps
I mean, I'm sorry but all you've done here is shift from general claims into personal anecdotes and now into dating app behaviour. If you shift the goalposts anymore we're going to be in an entirely different stadium.

The main point here is that regardless of what the numbers show, nothing explains (let alone justifies) the penalties applied to women who are more sexually active vs men, and this has been the same historically when we know for absolutely certain that women had far less sexual freedom.
 

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There is a reason for that though, the ease of acquirement. Far more women have slept with 50 men than men have slept with 50 women. I am not picking a side, just stating the truth on that.

To be honest that may form another part of the NTR hate 'I finally got one, and this happens' - its a very real fear when getting into a relationship.
That is NOT the truth. That is a falsehood.



but a friend of mine once gave me some advice
Your friend was biased.

And because it met your world view, or fed into it, you accepted the lie.