If she isn't in the Lab, it's impossible to watch her from the camera feed. I've tried just about everything I could after ~5 hours working the problem in-game. In my save, just sitting docked and passing time hour after hour (checking her location hourly), she never goes to the Lab again. And her auto-train number is stuck at 2.
In my save, she goes to the Mess Room (from the bridge) at 18:00 hours, then to her cabin at 19:00 hours. At 20:00 hours she exercises and kicks the MC out. I just did it all over (again for the Xth time, lol), and it works out the same every time. It's hopelessly stuck at '2'.
Thanks! I suspect it was me inadvertently skipping a line in the walkthrough and going straight for her jugular (by getting her drunk and then having my way with her before she was fully auto-trained). But, that could happen in a non-walkthrough game as well, so if it is a bug (and I suspect it is), it'd be great to nip it in the bud. Blocking her going to the Mess before being fully auto-trained would be the best option I think.
Or, after more consideration, make her Pet questline depend on her autotraining completion. I'm not sure if that's what messed it up, or if it was getting her drunk (not sure what portion forces her to start going to the Mess).
Yeah, I haven't touched the pre-URM saves with URM installed. Deleting the persistent file (save folder) and then loading the save without URM seems to load and function normally - all the pertinent data for inventory, bots, characters, quests, etc is all still good.