I didn't think I needed to say this because I thought this was obvious, but what the character looks like has nothing to do with what they actually are. Sure, they may have `child-bearing hips` but that doesn't change the fact that there were intentions of looking like a child. Yeah no shit anime characters don't look like real people, quite the astute observation. Let me reiterate what a loli is. The term loli originated from the 1955 book `Lolita`, and this might surprise you, the book is about a grown man becoming infatuated with a 12 year old girl. Over the years the term `Lolita` has evolved into a genre of fashion, as well as the archetype of characters you see in japan. And as you would guess, the term applies to characters who are specifically designed to look like children. Saying you `like lolis` is tantamount to being a pedophile. And I don't know why you assume you speak for everyone in saying `all of us fappers are pro rapist`. I don't actively want to rape people, but I assume you meant you don't actually wan't to rape people but rather you constrain your sexual fantasies to just fiction. If that's not the case, then it really isn't helping your argument and to be honest I'm not sure why you included that whole bit about rape as it stands more to frame you as a weirdo than it does to help your argument.
And what do you mean it `doesn't count if it's a fictional character.` Are you okay? Fictional characters aren't real, but your attraction to them most certainly is. It makes no difference if it's pixels on a screen or a porn mag, if you are attracted to what you are seeing then it makes your preferences real, and can be reflected onto the real world. I know that you could maybe find attraction to a loli with huge tits and think "Well this could never happen in the real world so that doesn't make me a pedo." and maybe it doesn't, but once again the implications are there. The fictional world isn't some fantasy land where all your thoughts are magically contained and nobody will ever see them. The way you feel about things privately can reflect onto you as a person and how you interact with other people.
Listen, if you like small women, you can say that. You can just say "I like smaller women". I personally like small women as well, but that is entirely different than saying you like lolis, as lolis are not always children, but have the design and makings of a child, and by saying you like them, the implications are that you like children. And I know that there are instances where its maybe excusable to say you like the character and would fuck them, but those are few and far between, and in most cases saying that would get you a life sentence.