Well, maybe. I've lived in multiple countries. A number of them in the West (NL a while back, UK now), but most of my life has been in the Middle East. One of those countries historically has had one of the largest harems that ever existed. That still doesn't make me "appreciate" harems
That was in response to the statement that there is no way to write a grounded, realistic harem story, something that seemed rather categorical to me. That said, condolences, especially on having lived in the Netherlands, maybe on living in the UK, and - who knows - maybe in having lives in the country that historically had one of the largest harems?
Now I agree most harem games don't bother with a realistic story and aren't grounded in real-world examples of harems.
Bad Memories is from memory the only one that really puts in effort to describe psychological mechanisms for the main LIs. Then again, most porn games here don't have a realistic story and most erotica stories and most amateur writing don't have realistic stories either.
No, it doesn't, but that wasn't my point. I meant that the wooden nature of sex in Sorcerer made it easier for me to skip it because the sexual parts detract from the realism of the story.
My mistake, I then misread your statement as meaning that the harem in Sorcerer was what made the sex scenes feel unerotic.
The trouble here is that Sorcerer tries to have its cake and eat it too. It takes place in the modern world, in an arguably Western country, where women don't appreciate being a man's property. Further, the MC is faaaar from what a historical harem owner would be. He's kind, a believer in free will, and is not in a position of power over his concubines. I'd be surprised if there was a single historical example fitting that definition.
I completely agree with that. The setting feels like the US to me.
Yes. If anything, a realistic harem should pretty much by definition be degrading. Ironically, this makes rape-simulator games like
Desert Stalker great examples of realistic harem VNs
I'm not sure about which definition of degrading you're talking, but if you mean generally patriarchal, I agree. But I was thinking of the kind of fantasy or scifi setting that can be seen in Japanese corruption games with a female MCs.
Haha, that's pretty much what I said in my
To Be A King review
Hmm,
The New Queen kind of has that level of backdealing, but I don't think it's a harem game. Now that I think about it,
Sorcerer does have significant amount of LI rivalry. I don't think it's based on political machinations and possibly also not on jealousy, but who knows what's in store for us?
The first one I would recommend is called
Sunstone. The first arc is completed (volumes 1-5) and it is a lesbian rommance BDSM story. It is very well written and tells the tale of 2 women looking online to find someone to explore their kinks with and how that purely sexual relationship evolves into more. The story is well written, the characters have depth and the art is absolutely gorgeous.
I guess my bias to this series is clear when I use it as my profile picture
Thanks so much for that! I haven't been looking hard, but I'm interested in con lesbian or female bi BDSM comics. I've checked the first 40 pages of volume 1, it looks really promising.
Most of these naïve fanboys don't want to hear about how things were/are in real harems. They will insist (perhaps because of homophobia) that the women in harems never got intimate with each other.
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But my read is that harem fans tend not to mind LIs getting frisky once they're part of the harem.
I know a few people who are in a Master/slave arrangement (one guy I know has 2 that live with him and at least one other who is still becoming established), but people truly embracing that lifestyle are very rare. Most others in M/s relationships are much more casual about it, not 24/7.
Yes, submissives, along with masochists, were one type of personalities I had in mind in my previous post. The others were cuckolds or cuckqueans, sexually innocent people and 'broken' people. But pressing the last two types into a harem is super manipulative, so that isn't compatible with a benevolent MC. Cuckqueans are imo already becoming an overdone trope. There are probably more types who might be up for it though. But likely not a large share of the Earth's population.
That sounds... fascinating, really. I assume these are fully consenting Western-values adults? If so, I wish I could interview them, especially the "slaves". How different their minds must be...
Well, probably.
Some of them like to leave making the decision to someone else, some are attracted to pain or humiliation and for many it's both. The former could be compared to other cases in life where one might want to delegate decisions to others, but the latter just has to be accepted as being a thing for some people like other niche kinks that don't make a great deal of sense biologically.
This actually reminds me of one of my biggest pet peeves with regards to Adult VNs. Pretty much all poly relationships depicted in games (we are going to skip past the fact that 99% of them are simply MFF Thruples that is another can of worms I'm not opening) has to start with some form of cheating or at least dishonesty. The one relationship type that probably relies the most on trust and communication is shown the be starting on the basis of lies and omissions. Let's face it none of those "relationships" would ever last much if that is the fundation you build it upon.
This is making it so hard to enjoy those storylines. I want to see an established couple opening up together or a close group evolving into relationship or many of the different yet respectfull ways poly relationships can be built. It might be a personal issue too since I know I have a harder time with cheating (personal background) but I hate that trope of "Poly means MC dates 2 LIs indepentently and then they find out and decide to form a thruple".
Trust and communication is a fundamental part of any relationship and the more people involved the more relevant that statement is.
Yes, the amount of forced cheating in games with group relationships is a big turn-off. Though a lot of that is in harem games that don't follow the tenets of open or polyamorous relationships. I'm less bothered by secretly sleeping around if the dating is still casual, but also in that scenario dating two people independently is an unlikely means of creating a thruple. I think the ethics in
Defending Lydia Collier work well, where the player has more leeway when the LI hasn't asked for commitment yet but you can pick up an STD by fucking the wrong people, so be honest about it.
Jessica O'Neil's Hard News has neighbours in an open relationship, but the neighbour's boyfriend may be rather scummy.
Ramen No Oujisama is a VN where cheating blows up one route, but the implementation is a bit too silly.
I think the only way to make economically viable games with MMF thruples is through games with female protagonists. If the protagonist is male, it will not get enough backers.
I gave this one a shot. It is
yet another magical urban fantasy, but it's quite well done. Unlike most, the MC here isn't some omnipotent godlike hero. He's more of a loveable idiot who is just confused with everything, and has a hard time understanding what the fuck is going on. It's quite endearing
Hmm, that sounds a little like Mr Alexander Ward, who is no idiot but who also in way over his head in complicated matters that can easily get him killed.
(Also, for the RenPy enthusiasts who might be reading this, this game has one of the worst, most disorganized scripts I've ever seen. It's such a pain to figure out which variables affect what outcome. There is a reason why no one has managed to create a walkthrough mod for it.)
Can't have people cheating their way through your game with a walkthrough if the game is too difficult to write a walkthrough for.
Will probably edit this post when I'm able to proofread again.