There is an Uncensor patch. An uncnesor patch puts relations back into a game and replaces the stupid landlady tenant bs that Patreon and the credit card companies demand. So your point is moot. If it didn't have that patch, then I'd agree with you. But since it has that patch, then usually that is how the game is actually supposed to be. I mean, who actually believes lines in the game like "my landlady raised me since I was a baby"? So stupid.
There is no official uncensor patch now. if I remember correctly the last patch version, that is located at lewdpatcher (and rumors say that it had been supported by the "evil modder") isn't compatible with the final version of the game.
You can find a disclaimer on the developers' Discord server that for any patches that can be found online, stating that the developer has nothing to do with these patches.
There are fan-made mods, for example alain8891's mod seems the most popular. Iirc there were a few other's.
While I respect the work they've done, and have nothing against the fan-made mods of the game, I personally haven't seen them. I'm not interested in fan-made versions of the game, and the only version of the game I'm talking about is the official version published on Steam.
And I strongly believe, there's a reason why "evil modder" has stopped doing his evil things and disappeared. Because it is obvious that the dev is changing some details of both of his games, and if earlier there could be questions about the connection between some characters, now, I am sure, in the next update this ambiguity will be clarified. You can find an example of possible changes in the latest update of another Ocean's game - Where it All Began.