Swinging games seem to just be softcore NTR

harsha_26

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A lot of things are pretty much excuses for NTR:
-Like gangbangs? Well, rather than her being single it is now a wife/girlfriend who prefers sex with several other men to her husband.

-Like corruption? Well now instead of featuring a cute and innocent girl with no sexual experience she is now a loyal and devoted housewife.

-Liked those ebony girls? Well those don't exist, interracial is black guys stealing the girlfriend of tiny dicked white guys.

-Impregnation? Yeah by another man.

-Incest? For some reason a boy who has a crush on his sister and that sister sleeping with the father has now become a thing I'm starting to see disturbingly often.

-Femdom? Watch a girl have sex with someone else while she insults the size of your penis.

-Female+female+male? Watch a guy date your daughter and your wife at the same time.

-Futanari? Watch chicks with dicks steal your wife

-Lesbian? Yup, you're so bad in bed she goes and finds a woman.

The forum is starting to become some twisted form of rule 34, if there is porn of it, someone has made an NTR game about it
Bullshit stereotypes. I hope some devs across these stereotypes and give us creative ntr games.
Like, the game where a white male cucks the ebony girl of black husband, or like a full flegded swinging game which is not a bait to add ntr content too. Games like The Adventurous Couple, Jessica O neil Hard News etc etc shows swinging as just one route and the content is so less because its not the main route of those games. Even the famous swinging hentai game "swing & miss" is focused on cucking & caging boyfriend. Where are the real swinging games? Only Dreaming of Dana showed perfectly although it is one of the main route. Swinging means not only showing MFMF sex, but also adding some husband-wife individual fucking scenes too.
 

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In real life swinging actually lead to NTR more often because it can be difficult for the guy to find a woman to have sex unless he looks like a model or wealthy. For women no issue, because there are desperate men out there always, but majority of these men are low quality men.
 

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In real life swinging actually lead to NTR more often because it can be difficult for the guy to find a woman to have sex unless he looks like a model or wealthy. For women no issue, because there are desperate men out there always, but majority of these men are low quality men.
naaah... even if we're middle aged, we can still rock n'roll! as for the women, theeeey know their age limit (unless we have a sick dude neighbor stricken with anililagnia :ROFLMAO: ) and I won't be surprised if they decided to put us on short leash...
 
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harsha_26

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In real life swinging actually lead to NTR more often because it can be difficult for the guy to find a woman to have sex unless he looks like a model or wealthy. For women no issue, because there are desperate men out there always, but majority of these men are low quality men.
That's only possible if the wife is cheater. If the wife is cheater, whether swinging or no swinging, NTR will happen anyway. Yes, women can find any man they want. But if husband & wife are in good relation & just see sex as nothing more than fun, she won't fuck with other guys on husband's back. Swinging only works if both are in good relation. Otherwise as u said, it leads to NTR.
 

Volcanoid

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That's only possible if the wife is cheater. If the wife is cheater, whether swinging or no swinging, NTR will happen anyway. Yes, women can find any man they want. But if husband & wife are in good relation & just see sex as nothing more than fun, she won't fuck with other guys on husband's back. Swinging only works if both are in good relation. Otherwise as u said, it leads to NTR.
NTR can be Netorase as well not just Netorare. Even if it's Netorase, when the guy is unable to find women to have sex, while his wife keeps on banging other dudes, it's pretty much NTR not swinging. That's what I meant. So being in a loving relationship is not relevant.
 

Fliptoynk

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I think it wouldn't end up to ntr if one of them aren't fully sure confident enough to go for it... swinging couples usually tend to go to swingers' club to make sure none of them would get the shorter end of the deal.
 

harsha_26

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NTR can be Netorase as well not just Netorare. Even if it's Netorase, when the guy is unable to find women to have sex, while his wife keeps on banging other dudes, it's pretty much NTR not swinging. That's what I meant. So being in a loving relationship is not relevant.
In my dictionary, swinging only means swapping. I know swinging can be also sharing (Like MMF), but real swinging is called "exchange". If wife is faithful, and only participate in exchange events, everything will be good. And swinging is also comes under netorase.
 

Volcanoid

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In my dictionary, swinging only means swapping. I know swinging can be also sharing (Like MMF), but real swinging is called "exchange". If wife is faithful, and only participate in exchange events, everything will be good. And swinging is also comes under netorase.
If everything is in perfect condition, then swapping is right, but swapping is not possible always. Sometimes the couple can only find a guy, not another couple to swap, that's why a lot of swingers are okay with guys only when they are unable to find another couple. The problem is, when this continues to happen, it sounds like Netorase, meaning NTR.
 

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Deliverance is one of the games that got it right. It is actually the game that feels realistic interms of the sharing and swinging aspects. The wife loves the MC and he is not a cuck either. She knows that it is only for fun and don't go for it if the husband doesn't want that. In sharing most people like stag, vixen kind of relationship rather than cuckholding.
And also many comments are saying that it is tough for guys to get chicks. Actually it is easier if you are a swinger. Sure women have it the easiest but many women prefer married men who is in a open relationship unless you make him a ugly and stupid.
And I don't agree with the fact that swinging leads to Ntr. Love and consent is what determines if there will be Ntr'ing otherwise it would only fall in the category of sharing. If they are swinging and sharing they already get enough sexual pleasure. People know their limits, they may push their boundaries but they still have them, that if crossed will affect their life. Most people want to be alpha, and making mc look like a dumbo with the player's name will just make them angry except if u r a cuck. That is why so much ntr hating while sharing games mostly get a free pass.
 

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I'd say there's a distinction between a game about swinging and a game about NTR with swinging as the premise, so it's probably a matter of game summaries being able to clarify what fetish the game is actually meant to have.
 

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Deliverance is one of the games that got it right. It is actually the game that feels realistic interms of the sharing and swinging aspects. The wife loves the MC and he is not a cuck either. She knows that it is only for fun and don't go for it if the husband doesn't want that. In sharing most people like stag, vixen kind of relationship rather than cuckholding.
And also many comments are saying that it is tough for guys to get chicks. Actually it is easier if you are a swinger. Sure women have it the easiest but many women prefer married men who is in a open relationship unless you make him a ugly and stupid.
And I don't agree with the fact that swinging leads to Ntr. Love and consent is what determines if there will be Ntr'ing otherwise it would only fall in the category of sharing. If they are swinging and sharing they already get enough sexual pleasure. People know their limits, they may push their boundaries but they still have them, that if crossed will affect their life. Most people want to be alpha, and making mc look like a dumbo with the player's name will just make them angry except if u r a cuck. That is why so much ntr hating while sharing games mostly get a free pass.
hate to necro this thread but I was searching for swinging games differentiating themselves from ntr and this game up- and I wholeheartedly agree, this is often a frustration in searching - it seems like 95% of games that advertise or would be recommended as "swinging" are actually soft-ntr with mild swinging routes.

To put it simply, the swinging/sharing etc I think of and want is very light emotionally, regardless of the sexual nature. It's about fun, there's none of this "reevaluating the relationship" crap cooked up by cheating enthusiasts (see: every evakiss fan ever).

To date, maybe 2-3 games I've ever played fit this - Deliverance, A life worth living, and maybe something else......

I'd desperately love to find something new, but all I see is game after game of humilation-based-cucking, cheating, etcetc. A simple litmus test for me is - is a low relationship attribute score neccesary in game for those scenes or a high one? Majority of the time it's the former, that's not the swinging I'm thinking of.
 

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hate to necro this thread but I was searching for swinging games differentiating themselves from ntr and this game up- and I wholeheartedly agree, this is often a frustration in searching - it seems like 95% of games that advertise or would be recommended as "swinging" are actually soft-ntr with mild swinging routes.

To put it simply, the swinging/sharing etc I think of and want is very light emotionally, regardless of the sexual nature. It's about fun, there's none of this "reevaluating the relationship" crap cooked up by cheating enthusiasts (see: every evakiss fan ever).

To date, maybe 2-3 games I've ever played fit this - Deliverance, A life worth living, and maybe something else......

I'd desperately love to find something new, but all I see is game after game of humilation-based-cucking, cheating, etcetc. A simple litmus test for me is - is a low relationship attribute score neccesary in game for those scenes or a high one? Majority of the time it's the former, that's not the swinging I'm thinking of.
I've never seen someone in real life say they swing in order to sleep with someone better, for everyone the excitement is centered around the unknown, doing something new with someone completely different. That is why it isn't just another man sleeping with your wife, that alone isn't swinging, you're also sleeping with his wife because it is about all four people trying something new and exciting with a partner who is different from the person they normally do it with.

I mean, while I certainly agree if you allow some stranger to disappear with your wife for several hours then whatever happens you certainly deserve, but that isn't really swinging.

EDIT: Also, a random stranger isn't going to be nearly as good at pushing your buttons as a person who has been sleeping with you for years. I mean, if you've been eating your wife's pussy for the past 10 years, it's unlikely that some guy doing it for the first time is going to stumble upon some secret you don't know about. During swinging the sex is generally worse than your own partner, the appeal comes not from the skill of the other person, but the unknown.
 
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