Well, I don't know... for me, the only extreme situation for Asuna is the moment she saw Kirito in the brothel. Everything else is from the category – Asuna, let's play rock-paper-scissors. If I lose, I'll buy you coffee, if you lose, I can fuck you once a week in all holes! Asuna – Come on! Yeah! Very strong love!
Another thing is that Fujino tried to prolong Asuna and Kirito's breakup as long as possible. But because of the bullshit Asuna always agreed to (I know what Inoda wants from me, I don't want to do it myself, but fuck him, this time I'll let him do everything... and so on over and over again), all her tossing between Inoda and Kirito looks ridiculous. In my opinion, if the heroine really loves the hero, then the lot of sex that happens between her and the "bad" guy may be, for example, because of blackmail. And in the end, the heroine breaks down (the Promise game is the standard of NTR for me). In principle, I have nothing against hypnosis, but in order for it to be interesting, you need to twist the plot well, otherwise it will stupidly slide into a stupid series of meaningless porn videos.