Here's what the devs should do, you need to 'Play Ball' with Patreon, you gotta learn how to be PC; politically correct.
First, this part of the statement is extremely important:
That's a huge hint. They're basically saying that things need to die down for a few months. Chances are Patreon got into trouble by Paypal for Taffy Tales, or someone higher up got scolded and they just need to let the dust settle.
1. From the date they told you to stay away from Patreon, wait 4 months.
2. Remove all sexual content from the game (this is temporary) and make a SMUT FREE version. This would probably take no more than a day, and an extra day for testing. Unless your code is a complete mess (it happens), then 3-4 days.
3. Submit this smut free version of Taffy Tales to Patreon, once they approve it, Patreon page restored. If they don't, then you only lost 3-4 days of time; imo it's worth therisk.
4. If they restore your page, then in the next version of the smut free version, you're going to slowly re-add porn content BACK into the game, but before you do so, you're going to submit the sexual scenarios to Patreon for approval. Once approved, you add it back in slowly. This can occur over a period of 45-60 days. Patreon staff are great at accepting or rejecting a specific lewd scenario you pitch to them.
5. Repeat step 3 until nearly all content is restored, and whatever content that's rejected, make a detailed note of what it is and then release it to the community so other porn game devs can benefit, you'll be a hero. You'll clearly know what caused the violation in the first place if you follow this methodology.
Remember, the goal here is simple. GET the patreon page back up at ANY cost, that's the first step.
Open to criticism.