Ok this is going in the realms of off topic, so this is the last im replying to you.
So imagine the game did have a scat fetish in it, and the game asked you whether you wanted to see it. You obviously said no, but then 5 seconds later your watching Mary eat shit. Not cool right? Sure your not invested in the game so you might just delete it, but some people are. And this is a forum where the games discussed, is it not valid to say that might not be great game design? Of course it is. And im not even going to explain how a forced NTR scene is out of place in a non-NTR route. Im not even sure you read what I said at this point.
But point is Darnell hasnt done anything to her, nothing major at least, no dicksucking or fucking. He just made her strip.
Your example would make more sense if you said "imagine if you saw Mary in the toilet and she was about to take a dump" by how the update did it, you wouldnt see the shit. You would immediately be prompted with "Do you not like Scat?" and then whether you say yes or no, it would show you the shitting or not.
So if that happened? No, I wont mind at all. I had the option to back out before I actually saw the shit. Like this game has so many kinks that arent my forte, I dont like BDSM, do you see the game asking me if BDSM can be turned off or on? No. Even if it didnt ask me about Danny and went straight to Red fucking him because hes messed up like that, why would I bitch about it? Someones getting off on it, I can just skip it. Or will seeing one hint of Red fucking Danny mean I'm gay? Is that how it works?