I wish all the 90's RPG's I used to play back in the Snes/Genesis era had porn in them, lol. It would give a whole new meaning to grinding in Phantasy Star and Final Fantasy that's for sure.
I get that but just like you have your likes and dislikes so do the rest of us. I'm glad there is a little more to the game than just the sex. Right now I would put the game at like 90% sex and 10% game. I personally would like to see it closer to 50/50.
I do understand this will never happen because Pateron is a double-edged sword. If they can make thousands a month just by adding a couple of paragraphs and half a dozen pornographic photos then why rock the boat and do anything else and while I am happy to see them make money it also saddens me because I know not much will ever happen with the "game" portion.
As far as the load times what are you playing on? On the PC you can preload the game at the start and that pretty much takes away all of the load times.