Male and female are primary biological characteristics, not gender identities. If you want to say that trans-women are women... fine. Whatever. But I'm sorry to say, they are in no way "female".
I know that upsets some people, but it is what it is. Sometimes you just need to play the hand you're dealt to the best of your ability.
That being said, I won't comment on this further, because it's derailing the thread. I was posting here to talk about how I'm not gay for wanting ladies to put things in my butt, dammit! (at least it's somewhat related to the game...
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