There's nothing wrong with playing as either a Chaste or Pure/Top/Switch Hiro that doesn't get his ass pounded. I play as one that sucks the colour off a woman's dick but his butt stays un-fucked. He pounds ass like mad and kisses all the ladies
Competing with Cait during a 69 to bring her to climax first is the best scene that demonstrates this.
But seriously, the only gripe I have about this whole thing is I wish Hiro (When he does top) has the option to treat his partner better for a more satisfying fuck. You telling me Hiro wouldn't give Urka or Drow a reacharound?
But yeah, I know this is a Bottom Hiro heavy game. I'm just looking forward to more character expansions that let Hiro be a more confident Bottom/Top/Switch
Friend told me the same issue, have you tried offering Kylira to the Friendly Werewolf, the Brigand & the Ettin?
Practice against her in Adventure Mode and make sure you've got the +2 Gladius from the Ogre and the potions.