you can top enemies too, but it is very hard, you need to trip them into vulnerable positions, keep them that way, be on the offensive stance, be hard and all of this without killing or being killed.
They say that they will improve on topping later on on development
You have to hope that you don't kill them in offensive stance, or they don't kill you when they are doing it.
You can only get hard if they arouse you, which only happens during sex attacks, which can make you lose the game before you can retaliate.
Or use the taunt skill, but that increases their arousal levels really high before you get hard. Which results in them getting orgasms really quick, and you win the fight before you could even try topping the enemies.
The grapple doesn't work on some enemies. They get out of grapple while you are still grappling.
As broly965 said, some positions on enemies don't give either an orgasm. So you are stuck in a loop.
Food is still annoyingly hard to come by. I just save edit so I don't have to bother with that.
Some scenes are locked behind the catamite perk. Because saying "please bone me" requires extensive training.
Speaking of save editing: You can open your Save or Save01 file with notepad.
"Save" is the autosave, which also saves in combat. "Save01" is your manual save.
You can edit attributes. I believe they go from 1 to 9. Any other number will crash the game.
When you look at health, you'll see "15, 15, 15 , 15". I believe they've divided your health in 4. But changing them to something like "100, 100, 100, 100" will give you 400 health total. The same works with stamina.
You can edit the autosave while you are in combat with an enemy. You can then change your and their lust to 9. So everyone is hard. If you want to try out topping an enemy. Change your position in the save file to "OFFENSIVE" and theirs to "PRONE".
Also change their stamina/balance to 0/teetering (or something like that).
Also make a backup of this file, because as soon as you continue the fight, the save immediately overwrites.
You have to do all that just to see new positions. Without save editing, it becomes even more tedious.
You could also play a better game. :x