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I am aware of that term, however it just sounds stupid to me. I don't understand how dickgirl is derogatory as it is legitimately what they are. A girl with a dick.
I also don't remember seeing it as such before. As far as i know "shemale" is the one that can be considered derogatory.
I've been told it's due to it being derogatory to other groups, similar to how using random slurs towards others can still cause discomfort due to association of the malice behind the word's origin.I have never heard this as a derogatory term. I have been writing futa for over 10 years, been a mod at Futanari Palace for 7 years and an admin for over a year. If certain groups of people want to consider it derogatory for whatever reason, fine, but for over a decade, this is a first for me.
Knowing different folks can lead to different perspectives, some have a more negative experience with the term typically due to a catch-all use.I have personally handled bigots before and dealt with them accordingly. At the same time, I have also seen people come in over the years and start flame wars because their personal definitions and terms of the fetish were not enforced. That is the challenge: sorting out legitimately bigoted terminology from current terms that are being interpreted by individuals as derogatory. On a personal note, I have known several trans people who do not have a problem with the term. So, from my own experiences, yes, I can say this is the first time I have ever heard of the term being considered by anyone as derogatory. At the same time, I am not going to say my own personal experiences are the end-all, be-all either. Were I trans*, the only thing I would hate to be called is "late for dinner." XD
EDIT: I do not want to get too far down this rabbit hole because it will derail the thread.
But yeah, typically it's the less hassle choice to just say 'futa' to describe fictional non-transitioned charas like the ones in ToA and just assume balls and vag are like weapon attachments
I do appreciate the detail you went into, with your response, since it shows a depth to your understanding and view on the matter
But, tbf, you have nothing on the ol' reliable response to convos like these.
My god you are stupid.
- Hiro's thoughts before entering combat, as he puts on his buttplug and ball-gag to remain a virgin.Is it a boy? is it a girl? Doesn't matter, it's got a penis.