Well, you were playing it wrong. You started by "encouraging" (really more like nagging, pushing, and manipulating) Anne into fucking other guys, and then you changed your mind. No wonder she was pissed off. If you're supportive of her extracurricular activities, she's absolutely fine with you getting a BJ and there's no game over.
About half this thread would be unnecessary if people would just accept the game's core premise: the husband wants Anne to fuck other guys. At several points the game offers the player the opportunity to object, or to try to limit her, or to express displeasure at her behavior, but since all those choices contradict the entire purpose of the game, it's no surprise that they lead to stat penalties and/or game overs.
See above: you're playing it wrong. Trying to control Anne once the slutty genie's out of the bottle isn't the reason this game exists. It exists for Anne to take Transatlantic Cable lengths of dick.
To be fair, the husband's almost as much of a whore. As for swinging, there's a reason they're not doing it. Several reasons, actually. First, the husband likes to keep the other women he's fucking away from his marriage, which is why he hides/lies about his behavior. Second, Anne doesn't like swinging all that much. At the party, she immediately runs away from him to screw Mike; that he can choose to find and join her isn't something she asks him to do. She complains that she would've preferred her husband let her and Dre have uninterrupted sex, rather than joining in. The one and only time she seems to be into swinging is with the neighbors; otherwise, she prefers her adventures to be solo, or at least with her husband as a pure voyeur.
A more narratively sophisticated story would examine this a bit, perhaps explaining that the husband's active involvement causes her to feel residual guilt, or that — even though she knows he's fucking around on her — she doesn't like to see it (unless, as with the aspirational hotwife, she's in control). But, of course, this isn't that sort of story either.
Not exactly. The game over comes from repeatedly objecting to Anne's activities and letting the relationship take too much damage. Choosing to let Anne fuck Martin, choosing to ignore that it's going on, or choosing to force her to confess later on; no matter what you do, as long as your relationship points are high enough, the game continues.
Well, the husband's gotten exactly what he wants. If he doesn't like it anymore, he knows who to blame.