I feel this also. It's one thing to want to spice up their sex life together, quite another to turn Ann into the village bike, with free bike rides for all. Scenes that should be hot sometimes feel unimaginative also, just like they are going through the motions.
I feel like Ann is going off doing too much alone lately, how about a "Hey Tony, come to the spa with me and we can have some fun?" instead of Tony being stuck at home alone, while she is off getting spit roasted by Drake and Troy. How about she asks if Tony wants to go to Phil's photoshoot with her, so he can see for himself what she gets up to?
For me it sometimes feels more like cheating, instead of a couple spicing up their sex life.