Well, it might make you not want to play the game. I don't have a problem with the concept generally. Part of the fun for me is the chase.
However, I have found some choices in this game are definitely unintuitive. So you need to massage Grace (which makes her slightly more submissive) but also to have her dominant overall in order to get the breast suckling scene. That doesn't make sense: make her dominant by first making her more submissive?
If the choices were more intuitive, I don't see any problem with points and variables determining whether an LI is being pursued. So I see some of the issues you and others might have in this game, but I don't agree with the overall conceptual sentiment.