Don't brand me, I'm not even into dom/sub fetishism

Granted, I always prefer to be in the driver's seat as a player, even with a sub character - and could play a sub path if in the right mood and provided some agency were still possible, like choosing to avoid any actual humiliation of the MC (I don't think submissive roleplay and masochism have to go hand-in-hand). My only point (and not really complaining) is that the lady bentley scene felt deeply unpleasant. While reading, all I could imagine was the MC thinking about Matthew and Daisy fucking while he was forced to munch that hideous woman's piss-smelling snatch, on her command. I can't resolve it in any other way than a painful experience. So much so that I wished the MC could have expressed deep displeasure to Daisy afterwards, which is itself what a defeated character would do. Just had to bite the bullet and be happy that Daisy was fully satisfied by Matthew. If only the game gave us a choice to dominate lady bently instead. Or even a reason to play the submissive, gain their trust and later get back at them? Lord and Lady Bentley are exactly the kind of people I dislike in real life, self-conceited bullies. You know I mention it all the time, can't enjoy stories of sharing a LI with dominant pricks, and can't enjoy submitting to them as the MC, either. Probably wouldn't mind it if had been a neutral, non dominant character and the scene played out as pure roleplay. The presence of humiliation elements even when you make dominant choices is the reason I accept that the author was more keen on the sub story, and admire that they still pulled a decent and complete dom path. It also seems possible to make different choices at different times, I don't mind breaking the pure dom role in a game that was designed to provide a mix of content, but I'd want to avoid any humiliation of the MC. I didn't know, at the time, that you could avoid that scene altogether by not engaging in that week's activity, and even get a love scene with Daisy instead (perhaps it wasn't in the version I played). So, the choice is there, you only need to assume that club games are risky business, you can get burnt. As I said, I'm not a gambler, don't enjoy the "thrill" of being exposed to the chance of losing badly, and prefer to roleplay a calculating MC that somehow "knows" when sharing will be rewarding, and when it won't, get all the rewarding scenes, avoid all the masochistic ones.
Anyway, let nobody think this is all that this game is about. We're talking about one scene (but one that went straight into my unpleasant scene HoF). This game has more degrees of liberty than most I've played.