you are not suggesting ideas, you are begging to monopolize the game for your own fantasies. Your "feedback" was only feedback in name, you just said what you wish to see without providing any if's and why's. But dev still needs money so commissions make sense in that regard since it's not canon content anyway.
Sure, people can act embarrassing if they want to, doesn't mean they should act that way.
And yeah, you deserve all the bad words that could possibly go in your way, since you are selfishly trying to introduce your own fantasies at the expense of everybody else who likes and plays this game. You are basically shitting on all of us who support this dev in
his creative vision, so eat that back.
There are a lot of people like you in these forums so it's not like you are anything extraordinary, I also don't call out this shit every day. Maybe just count yourself unlucky. Even if I were to scroll 2 pages back I would probaly find several postings like yours, but it just so happened that my eyes ended up on yours and not those and I just happened to be in the mood to lambast this kind of behaviour.
At least you are being honest I guess, majority opts for going behind the scenes and spamming dev in DM's like rats.
The way you convey your "wishes" also matters. There is a difference between begging the creator directly and impersonally saying what you would like to see and why.
This is not the good example, but have you seen a beggar on the street? What would you do if he came to you and started touching you all over while begging for money? Uncomfortable. You look exactly like that, like smelly old beggar with not a shred of dignity. But, of course, considering the feelings of the dev is last thing on your mind. You are here to
WHACK not think
Honestly, one of the hardest part of the development must be replying to embarrassing messages like yours, if it were me I would fking ignore your ass but I also know it's not good to reject potential supporters outright and ignore them. Pity.
I commend you on being honest rat.
If dev decides to do fan service they will probably make a poll on patreon where people decide, that's the most common approach.