i give up, one of the two, or i have really bad luck or my game is bugged, because beside those 15 days i said in my last post, i tried wait and sleep for more 30 days and the optionals for jean still didn't trigger on the map, i'm completely stuck on the main quest because of that, please make the optionals trigger based on some kind of value like love, trust, days of the week, whatever, don't put something needed to advance main quest as random event. ^^"