harem.king
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The claim that a person being submissive is self harming is... just ridiculous.I'll be honest. Rogue's submissiveness is the only quirk I dislike/see as a red flag. Even falling under the lie of "these are sexy time benefits", it's always made me uncomfortable. But my position on things like these isn't to deny them, but explore them and deal with them in a healthy way.
So here's to hoping that that will be possible in the game eventually.
Addendum: When I say "red flag" I don't mean a "don't be with this girl, she's bad news" red flag. I mean "This is not a healthy thing for the person." red flag.
It is perfectly valid lifestyle.
Also, a red flag does not mean:
a. not my fetish
b. self harming behavior
a red flag is a trait that warns you that this person has major problems that makes them bad for YOU and that YOU should not even try to date them.
ex: Signs they are a cheater, signs they are a compulsive liar, signs that they are a criminal who is going to go to prison. signs that they self harm. etc
that kind of stuff.
Now you might have noticed that I put self harming behavior in it.
yes, self harming behavior IS a red flag.
This is one of those "all squares are rectangles. but not all rectangles are squares".
Self harming is a red flag, but not all red flags are self harm related. (ex: cheating)
Of course that requires it to be actual self harm.
The only thing rogue submitting to her man actually harms is the feminist idealogy.
Rogue is not harmed by it, you are not harmed by it.
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