Well I just gave it a good hearty try, saved and loaded and reset town a few times, but it is still laggy compare to 394. I don't know, it might be bc I'm just upgrading from 394 instead of starting a new game. The lag is subtle, in micro pulses, but noticeable even in simple camera rotation on a single lot. He mentioned he could not get rid of all the lag, especially the micro ones which I suspect is what I am noticing.
Well, I can confirm he fixed the notification problem, something oniki broke early on and didn't fix. Denton also fixed a lot of other issues, the customization enable/disable functions are working again which is a big plus bc it allows the user to disable a lot of annoying autonomy.
I'll keep the version around in case one day I decided to start anew, but for now it is hard to move on from my legacy game which I started 10 years ago. I really wanted to upgrade from 394 for the model/actor careers bc they were not finished in 394. But the way my game is now, these micro pulses is giving migraines so I have to stick with 394.
But I'm curious about one thing. Can you not simply use kinkyworld options on the mailman and change the gender to female? Also, I remember EA original has both male/female repair service. Were the mailmen always male? I vaguely remember there were female mail service too or it might've been just my imagination.