Not my fault that people are hypocrites about sex. Or that people punish others for having non-vanilla attitudes about sex with very weird and often abusive exceptions for their own predilections.
Define "people" or, better, give effective examples to back your claim.
Is Netherlands, where prostitution is legal and where there's
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, included in your "people" ?
In more or less half of Europe
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, being or not regulated by Law. Are those countries included in your "people" ?
Is France that, just for its capital, have
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, part of your "people" ? And I don't talk about shady places, most have their own website so you can check it by yourself, and two are located on the Champs Elysee. Or perhaps is it me who's weird to think that BDSM is none-vanilla sex ?
Or that some self-designated morality police feel perfectly justified to murder lots of people to protect some vague notion of proper sexuality.
Can you provide some examples ? And here I mean "from outside of the USA".
I'm sure that you'll not have too much difficulties to find them. In "the West", murdering "lots of people" isn't really something that happen often outside of the USA. There's of course, and alas, the multiple aggression against LGBT+, but by chance it only exceptionally end by a death ; and, obviously, this is out of topic here since homosexuality is neither a sexual practice, nor a sexual fetish.
Though I do think that you have wildly underestimated how many people in the world have played games like Summertime Saga or Being a DIK or whatever. We are legion and we are in hiding.
Summertime Saga have
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, and it's the most supported game. Even if only 1 player out of 30,000 decided to support the game, it would still only make 828 millions players, so just a bit more than 10% of the
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.
Looks like you wildly underestimated the world population.
Is "the West" ambivalent when it come to sexuality ? Yes.
We taught it in school (at least in most of Europe, so I don't talk about the usual bullshit US SexEd). Most of Western countries have a National Sexual Health week (here
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, but there's one for most of the other countries) where sexuality is directly addressed, as well as sexual orientation and fetishes (depending on the events), since they can have a direct incidence regarding one's health. Then, outside of those two periods (school and special days/weeks) we let it exist (prostitution, sex clubs, sex shops) be globally don't want to talk about it.
But this isn't due to a question of morality. We don't repress our sexuality, we just believe that it's something personal that don't have to be publicly addressed.
In the end, it looks more like you are personally fearing to be judged by your peer, and project this on every one.