I think the term BF for the FeMC based games needs a re-define. Maybe need a New Emoji for this in particular. But in terms of actual BF where you can win through the actual BF mechanics there are very very few. In fact, the only ones I can think of are Karryn's Prison and Saria Reclaimed. There are some where the FeMC's can use the BF mechanics to gain an advantage but, I wouldn't call that BF considering you still have to kill or defeat the enemy with attacks to finish the fight. Definitely looking for more like Karryn's but finding out that mechanic is pretty rare. Haven't checked the MaleMC ones but I'm assuming it's more common in there?
Anyway, thank you for the list! This definitely helps take the hassle out of finding some of these games. You Rock.