It is kinda unforgiving if you wanna do minor things like the gloryhole or some semi-normal waitressing/cleanup but don't wanna push it into the humiliation portion. For now I keep 2 strict save files, one fully lewd and one entirely pure but I hope for some flexibility in the future if it doesn't get in the way of more important things.
I would also like to mention again that this game made me reconsider my stance in SRPGs and I've picked up Fire Emblem because of it and opened my mind a little bit about the fun value of an SRPG. I'm not sure if it's a direct link but I kinda like the combat a whole lot, it's very interesting, always thought it'd be super boring so I never game them a chance but there's a lot of dynamic strategising you get to do, and have to do sometimes. I have a new genre to make a backlog of in Steam now yay.