I don't disagree with your points - that's actually part of why I enjoyed the game when I played it. The enemy design being (IMO) disgusting is a benefit because it means I try harder to actually complete the game and avoid getting knocked down by them.
I still don't really follow it anymore - I'm here for more reasons than just playing a game and the content's not going in a direction I like, plus it's not a game I can take more than a few hours entertainment out of in its current state, but it
is a good game, and I got my mileage out of it.
I do find it interesting how you debate with yourself the realism of it and how it would compare to real life, it's not something many people do, at least as I understand it. I tend not to think about the sensations since I already know quite well what I like and dislike (in the H-game genre at least) and doing so for something I know I dislike will probably spoil the mood for me

, but that is an interesting perspective, and I'm glad to hear there's genuine thought like that going on when people play the games.
Anyway, my point was the art style and atmosphere is fantastic. Every time I pass by and look into the game's development it seems to be constantly improving. Not just the backgrounds and general vibe, but the gameplay is always getting better. And the enemy design is good and really makes me go "ew, that enemy is fucking disgusting and I don't want to be knocked and fucked by that," which is an objective well done, at least in my eyes.
Anyway, it's good to see a positive person on here, capable of discussion. People around here (myself included, not going to lie) seem to enjoy slapping themselves in the face when someone calls out a fetish they dislike XD