We do really need a good walkthrough...but this is all I have found. There is a built in hint/walkthrough in game that gives you the next step for characters. It will not be available until you have accessed the characters (so it won't say anything at the start).
There is a "hint" walkthrough that you can access in game. I was using an earlier cheat mod and it wasn't working.
to Access the hints:
Click on your character button (black suit icon). Click the "? FAQ" button and at the bottom click the "hints" button, it should say "Hints off" (meaning you have hints on and clicking it turns them off).
Now when you go back to main screen click the button for the characters next to the "black suit" icon and each character will show their Relationship, depravity and at the bottom a "Hints" like "bath. workday. 8am" for mom.