Here's the problem...and this is MY OPINION ONLY...speaking for myself and no-one else. All this "there's plenty of blame to go around" is bullshit. Whether he was communicative or not and whether he was sleeping w/ his sister while married or not is irrelevant and has nothing to do with how his family fucked him over "for his own good". From jump street the whole plan was one big piece of unexploded WWI ordinance...it wasn't a question of IF it was gonna explode, but when. What he was doing, in his mind, was the righteous and noble thing to do, regardless of the personal cost (despite apparently not taking into account the possible ramifications to his IMMEDIATE family, ie wife and daughter). In some ways (as probably a bad example) no different from what many people were cheering Snowden for (not me, but that's neither here nor there). As I stated earlier, his family fucked him, plain and simple, and then his wife double fucked him by not even being able to follow the relatively simplistic plan and marrying the damn dude. The ONLY one blameless in this whole shitshow (aside from the MC and the non-related chars.) is the daughter. And for those that mentioned that Deb cut off contact and didn't wanna be a part of it, that's crap, cuz they even said that they finally got back in touch, even though it was "only once in awhile" like that's supposed to make it better. Officer, I was ONLY doing 75 in a 55, I didn't wanna do 90 like everyone else was. Just because you pick the lesser of 2 evils or are not as evil as the next person doesn't mean it's still not evil. The only ones who needed to "be more communicative" were the wife and mother. Instead of flat out telling him why he needed to stop his crusade, they kept beating around the damn bush when they ALREADY KNEW that he didn't pick up on hints and subtlety. So I guess then yes...it's HIS fault for not reading their damn minds. And I also agree that it's pretty jacked up that we have the opportunity to give Deb the cold shoulder for her role in this, but we're forced into just blindly going along with the mother and basically forgiving her on the spot and start joking around and being all calm and shit.
I'm sorry for the length of the rant. I actually do like this game, and still like it despite this last update, and will keep playing.