I think the problem is that your male choices are Damien, who is very diffident (too much for me), and Matt, who is a total creep and abuser. If you're with the cheerleaders, it's obvious that the one coach wants you, but he's both married and much older.
I want a relationship with a guy who: A. isn't an aspiring rapist, B. isn't cheating on his wife, and C. has a backbone.
I kinda thought that Daniel, the bar owner, could have become a real relationship, but it seems that isn't the way the writers want him. I was seriously considering adding one of my own, but life has gotten a little too busy to write one, right now.