But as I said I'm not trying to be rude in any context, maybe my English isn't so good that I have used the wrong word when asking for help, my apology for anyone who got offended, in the end all I'm asking for is to get some help after 4 times of being ignore.in·sist Verb 1. demand something forcefully, not accepting refusal. 2. demand forcefully to have something. 3. persist in doing something even though it is annoying or odd. Going around insisting that people help you is practically the definition of being rude.