Whenever I happen upon a game where it has the "only submissives share" factor, that is what kills it for me, and stops my interest totally. It feels so.....I don't know....false?...
IRL, sharing has been a part of my life, and I am yet to meet a male in any scenario that has been submissive. All of them are strong supportive characters, as are most of the women with whom I have been involved. I don't feel like an outlier in this, in fact in every discussion I had, strength of connection, love, and trust were at the forefront.
It has only been in AVNs that I have actually encountered this "sub-sharer" thing......it sux. Muchly.
TBH, this annoys me as much as the "all sharers are cuckolds" bullshit. All I see is that obviously a lot of devs have never actually been involved in this "kink" and know SFA about it.