What do women actually look for in pornographic content?

[whateveryousayyo]

Okay, we've all heard women pornstars say that women also watch porn, etc. What do women actually want to see? We're in the age of onlyfans, so ANYBODY can be a smut star, but what do women want? Because if it's pornography from like a decade ago, then it's videos where the woman is the primary subject and the guy's legs, dick, and headless torso are the supporting cast. There's also that subset of pornography where the camera man is just zooming in on the guy's taint, but I doubt many people really enjoy that (not to shame anybody). Are women fine with watching other women get plowed? Is that good enough for them?

There's also stuff on clips4sale that involves women dirty talking to the camera--to roleplay a fantasy or something of the form. Do women want to see some male equivalent of that? So it'd be a guy roleplaying something that somehow inevitably ends in him having to jerk off or fuck some fleshlight that he pretends is the woman. I unno something like "POV: you're bullying a nerdy guy in HS and you pants him,, he's embarrassed, but seemingly he has a large cock". Again, I don't know. I'm just spitballing some equally improbable situation and response. Guys might want to see a woman that's submissive or ENF because that deviates from their expected reality. Typically, in my experience, women are made to expect a man that's stoic and "manly" in whatever form that takes in their mind. So would women be expected to prefer things that deviate from the norm or things that conform to the norm? Or any combination of scenario + body/dick type + emotional disposition ofc.

What I've seen typically involves a headless guy literally just jerking off--ostensibly a big dick. Is that genuinely enjoyable to watch? I'm pretty heterosexual, but it seems boring.

Or do women watch homosexual films. I'm vaguely aware of some films, via memes, where gay guys will put on an entire film with backstory, lore, worldbuilding just to establish them wrestling and fucking in spiky leather outfits.

EDIT: Me personally, I don't really have anybody to ask. Most of the women I know well enough have said they don't watch pornography or are otherwise women that genuinely consider it cheating if their guy watches porn--so I'd suspect they don't watch porn. Generally, I don't know that many people well enough to confidently ask this and I'm not about to ask all my tentative friends this and become that kinda guy. I only know one woman that's into AV media, but a sample size of 1 is pretty lame lol.

 

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[moskis22]

I guess they want to see sex, the same as us guys xD
About what kind of content, it depends, each one must have their own kinks and stuff

 

[Hagatagar]

I am not a woman, but I would say that, generally speaking, in porn for women the eroticism is much more important than just sex.

 

[Pretentious Goblin]

Ain't my gender, but here's some requests I've seen in the Recommendations/Identification subforum from ostensibly female members:

Rape
Males featured more than females in the CGs
Princess/queen MC
Lesbian-only games
Exhibitionism
Indepth clothing system
Pregnancy mechanics
Female MC that's not an idiot
Female MC that's already promiscuous, or at least not a clueless virgin

 

[whateveryousayyo]

Ain't my gender, but here's some requests I've seen in the Recommendations/Identification subforum from ostensibly female members:

Rape
Males featured more than females in the CGs
Princess/queen MC
Lesbian-only games
Exhibitionism
Indepth clothing system
Pregnancy mechanics
Female MC that's not an idiot
Female MC that's already promiscuous, or at least not a clueless virgin

Lol I guess it figures then that most women have the same kinks. That's basically what I've been told. It's crazy how every woman I've asked has always felt like they were so unique to say something like "When I have sex, I want to feel small--or conform to traditional feminine gender roles."

Like, it's just fundamentally not that controversial or strange and completely understandable.

That in mind, man, that's upsetting to me. I wanted to do an onlyfans, but literally every genre or idea necessarily involves another person being there. Oh well.

 

[CocoVC]

I like amateur/rough quality porn where there is a lot of chemistry and fucking.
I also like gangbangs if there isn't a guy talking over it. (Those are annoying af).
I do enjoy my tentacle and monster rape hentai. That's about it.
However, from my observation I do know that audio porn, with the right equipment and good voice is extremely popular with my fellow ladies.
Before r/GoneWildAudio was bleached, I always noticed M4F posts with a Boyfriend Experience or Daddy/daughter theme getting a lot of likes&views. So much that a few favorites had their own subreddit and personal website where they charge for their audio works.

And then there's dating simulators but I usually get too bored to get to the raunchy stuff, those are popular.

 

[kartolas]

I don't think there's much difference.

 

[woody554]

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also, although this breakdown doesn't show it, I've also seen polls where women ranked rough sex as #1 category.

 

[whateveryousayyo]

I don't think there's much difference.

I mean--there's a huge difference considering the lack of women-targeted JOI videos. I was hoping there'd be some equivalent, but frankly a guy jerking off imo looks a lot less interesting than a woman masturbating or doing anything else tbh. That's why I had to ask.

 

[kartolas]

I don't know mate, I never watch videos of neither of man or woman masturbating. I find them both uninteresting. Maybe we like less variety about what turn us on, or maybe it's the opposite, I don't know. It's just a feeling. I don't think there's much difference. Maybe we are more different when it comes to kinks only, like incest and other silliness. Maybe it's better if we don't know.

 

[gunderson]

Can't speak for lady interests in porn here, but I just thought I'd drop my two cents on another topic: any lady who thinks that a guy looking at porn is cheating is a fucking dud. Not to say that she's necessarily wrong, but rather that (especially since everybody who's here frequents fucking f95) that's just not a useful way to be now. Trying to cut people off from their fantasy lives is super duper shitty.

Also, it's fluids and/or sexual contact that are cheating. Right? That makes sense as a rule, doesn't it?

 

[Jofur]

Also, it's fluids and/or sexual contact that are cheating. Right? That makes sense as a rule, doesn't it?

Not to hijack the thread, but I wouldn't exactly feel happy about my girlfriend rubbing one out to people she's acquainted with. Even if she's has no actual sexual content with them.
Porn is fine, doubly so if it's porn featuring couples, but if she was fapping to a friend or coworker or something I would definitely feel a bit burned.

 

[gunderson]

Not to hijack the thread, but I wouldn't exactly feel happy about my girlfriend rubbing one out to people she's acquainted with. Even if she's has no actual sexual content with them.
Porn is fine, doubly so if it's porn featuring couples, but if she was fapping to a friend or coworker or something I would definitely feel a bit burned.

Up to you and your preferences, but I'm of the opinion that the content of our fantasy lives is our own. If a significant other thought that somebody else was hot, even somebody they know, it's not up to me whether they fap 'to them' or not, because I don't really have access to what that person fantasizes about when they 'get there' in the first place. The concern is more whether or not that leads to something, i.e. to sexual contact and/or fluids. And just for clarity, I consider camming with somebody you know or sexting/phone sex with somebody you know to be sexual contact, in addition to the usual suspects. YMMV, but I think that's a pretty straightforward system.

 

[Janice Davis]

I don't watch much porn, but when I do I like older men seducing young women (sort of an older uncle thing), exhibitionism (public sex), and I prefer when the woman is wearing something sexy. Nothing really unusual I guess...

 

[whateveryousayyo]

Not to hijack the thread, but I wouldn't exactly feel happy about my girlfriend rubbing one out to people she's acquainted with. Even if she's has no actual sexual content with them.
Porn is fine, doubly so if it's porn featuring couples, but if she was fapping to a friend or coworker or something I would definitely feel a bit burned.

See, this is something that I've always understood your side on, but at the same time had no luck explaining or convincing someone that it's not an insecurity or fear they ought have. I suppose it never mattered because--literally who is going to know except for me unless I literally tell them; however, I'd be 100% fine with having sex with any of my friends, but that doesn't preclude the idea I like the person I'm with more. I mean, very obviously, if I'm having sex with someone, I'm obviously not having sex with someone else. And also--I care deeply about someone I like being with feeling insecure. I feel that's how relationships are in a universal sense. We compromise our visceral sentiments here an there, pushing and prodding at the boundaries of what we actually do care about. At the end of the day, I'll abstain from something if it means it feels like they're moving past it or growing in another aspect. Otherwise, what's the point? My life's purpose isn't to make one person feel love they don't feel for themselves.

Anyway, I feel my sentiments about intimacy and relationships come off as really metricized from how people typically feel relationships should be. To me, intimacy is only fun when you've developed a relationship with someone over a time. There are things you can do intimacy wise that you also can't do with a random hookup (which is also insane to me that people do this with random people they just met). In this sense, even if someone is physically "more attractive from some perspective", it literally doesn't matter because my interest in them is proportional to how intimate I feel we are. If I'm already with someone I'm incredibly happy with, what time am I going to spend with this other person? At the end of the day, we get lucky. We get lucky that the person we're with is someone we met at the right time and that we're not always at some neutral baseline where the most outwardly pretty person will obviously get attention first.

Anyway, for example, I really like edging. I like it for myself and my partner. The denial and timing for it is something I enjoy as well as the the process. It's also like 40% of why I can last as long as I do with the other 50/10 being anti-depressants and prob diamond grip insensitivity. Now, can you imagine how frustrating it is to edge someone you don't actually know on a personal level? I've never done it, but I can only imagine they'd get so frustrated because there's absolutely no expectation for it.

edit: And I believe this is the core of basically all relationships really. I mean my partner could always start investing time in someone else and then that means they'd be with me less. I could similarly just do a 180 or grow distant with mine, but why would I? Do people very often change on a dime for yall?

 

[Carrera]

I can add some insight to this. I'm a producer and a woman.

So across my websites women make up on average 40% of the user base. At least that's who identifies as a woman. (I have more precise numbers but not at home to look it up on my work computer)

On average, women look at the same things that men do, and despite our current climate, rape porn is actually pretty high on the list. On the rare occasion we host erotic short stories (usually user submitted stuff for shits and giggles) women make up the majority of readers.

Lesbian content is consumed far more often by men than women.

Age wise men and women's taste in porn tend to grow closer in the late 30s.



Also, for Whateveryousayyo above me, I have a lot of employees, and I'm constantly surrounded by people, and when given the right opportunities yes, they'll do a 180 if they think they can get away with it. I think most people will do that. I can't remember the exact quote but!
"I have learned this by philosophy, that I do without being commanded, what others do only for fear of the law." Basically, if people know they can get away with it, they'll do it.



Looked it up, it's actually

I have gained this from philosophy: that I do without being commanded what others do only from fear of the law.

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[Meaning Less]

"I have learned this by philosophy, that I do without being commanded, what others do only for fear of the law." Basically, if people know they can get away with it, they'll do it.

Well by this quote, not if you are a philosopher. You just need to hire philosophers then.

 

[Fzeren]

I mean--there's a huge difference considering the lack of women-targeted JOI videos. I was hoping there'd be some equivalent, but frankly a guy jerking off imo looks a lot less interesting than a woman masturbating or doing anything else tbh. That's why I had to ask.

Not a girl, but what matters to me is how they do it, not whether they're a woman or man.

Also, I've heard there is this thing on TikTok where guys make pov-style videos for women where they say cheesy shit. I'd say that's kinda in the JOI-ballpark.

"When I have sex, I want to feel small--or conform to traditional feminine gender roles."

ikr

 

[Doorknob22]

I'm a (porn) author for 25+ years. While I generally consider female fantasies to be more vanilla and romantic, I used to have a female fan who was obsessed with fucking dogs. She never actually did this (at least until we stopped communicating) but she was obsessed with the notion, urged me to write her bestiality stories, had her greatest sex while watching dogs fuck, knew very technical facts about male dog/woman sex and more. She said she refused to actually get a dog because she knew she would eventually fuck it and never be able to go back to human male.

So, female perverts are rarer than males but they are certainly out there.