When does a female character lose sexual appeal?

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Another one that turned me off is the "mom" from The Inheritance. Sexy milf mom, mc tries to get close to her. He then finds some vhs tapes of her youth, in which she was a cum slut getting dp'ed by strangers for the cuck husband. Believable, sure. Attractive, no. Again, I'm pretty sure there is an audience for her, but not me.
Come on now, everyone got skeletons in their closet :p What someone done in the past shouldn't necessary be end of all in the present. If she line up to blow 100 guys in the present, now that is something else, although someone probably get a kick out of that as well.
 
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Uh... yeah but straying a bit away from anything sexual now tbh. lol.
Well yeah, I didn't find it sexual tbh. I don't know any tentacled monsters but they serve a purpose in games I suppose. Needing women to incubate their eggs could be one scenario, that's what I was trying to say. :)
 

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Come on now, everyone got skeletons in their closet :p What someone done in the past shouldn't necessary be end of all in the present. If she line up to blow 100 guys in the present, now that is something else, although someone probably get a kick out of that as well.
Hey, with some creative writing, the dev might be able to change my opinion of her. It's happened before (Leah from Freeloading Family, for instance). As for skeletons in her closet, she sure has a large closet :)

But OP asked for what turns you away from the wish-fulfilling dream of a girl/woman. And that tape surely did it for me.

And one thing I've learned from this forum - there is an audience for anything. Doesn't matter how badly written or stick-figure-graphics it is, someone's gonna fap to it. An axiom of humanity, right there.
 

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There was some backlash when the occupation of Susan/Mrs. Smith in my game was revealed. And it's somewhat comparable to finding those VHS tapes.
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But that seems to have faded, or people have focused on the route where the reveal doesn't happen.

I kinda like those tentacle scenes and I think narratively you could justify it by saying the monster in question uses it to impregnate humanoid women.

Interesting replies so far. Loss of agency or breaking character (rapidly becoming a slut) are understandable turn-offs.
 

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Well, for me it would be different, depending on the approach I am on with said girl. If I was being a gentleman and trying to court her the normal way, then it would be a sign from the girl that she desires other men, other than myself. IE, she flirts heavily with a guy, or even willingly goes on a date with him. I want some sort of reluctance from the girl in this situation, or at least having her ask for my blessing to do it, or its a turn-off for me. The scene in Milfy City, where Caroline goes to the club to find a date, was not really something I enjoyed, even though I love Caroline. Thank god the ex showed up and pushed her back into my far superior arms ^^

Now, if I was being a creeper, IE. forcing the girl into sex, either by blackmail or mind control or whatever, then it would be vaginal penetration. I can live with someone abducting my slave and forcing her to give him a blowjob, or even ramming her ass (preferably with a dildo) if it can't be helped. But her pussy... that's mine, and mine alone. I can live with a dildo being rammed inside, but once a pussy has been touched by a real cock after being touched by mine, then it is forever tainted.
 

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There was some backlash when the occupation of Susan/Mrs. Smith in my game was revealed. And it's somewhat comparable to finding those VHS tapes.
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But that seems to have faded, or people have focused on the route where the reveal doesn't happen.
Well, you made sure it was mentioned that she didn't involve herself too much in the things. Back when I first played it, I figured it was to avoid players like me turning away from her. It worked for me, I played both her routes. And later her motives and reasons was explained, iirc. To be fair, the same could happen in The Inheritance, except I'll be less likely to care.
 

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Some people are extremely protective of "their" girls and hate it when another male character even chats up the female element.
In game (IRL it's another thing) I don't care if someone chat with my girl, but don't even think about doing more. If you're a male character and start flirting with one of my girls, I'll dislike you ; they are my girls, and nobody can touch my girls. If you're a male character and want to corrupt on of my girls, I'll hate and think about killing you every time I'll see you ; they are my girls, and nobody except me have the right to turn them into brainless cum buckets.


So I'm interested at what point you consider the appeal of a girl being lost?
If the girl respond positively to the flirting, even if it's just flirting and will never go further (no touching, and even less sex), I'll start to avoid the girl. Same if she don't immediately tell the guy to go fuck himself if he try to corrupt her. I am the MC, they must have eyes only for me. But, despite loving when they are submissive slut, it need to come from me. If they crawl to my feet, begging to be my slave and be fucked hard, by themselves, I'll dislike them. They must be slave in perpetual need of sex because they love me, not because they are slut ready to everything for sex.


To give an example, a major part of the female cast gets abducted by some monster and a little while later you end up finding them entangled and penetrated by various tentacles (belonging to the monster), requiring you to save them. Would that diminish their sexual appeal because of the penetration?
It depend. Did they liked it or not ? And I talk here about "mental liking". I don't care if they had many orgasms because of this, it's a physical answer. I don't care if they achieved to not suffering from this because they imagined that it was me who did all those things to them. But if they liked the idea to be fucked by these tentacles, they can go back to the monster, they don't exist anymore for me.
Note that it's the same if it's not a monster. They can be gang raped for a whole year, as long as they don't liked it, or survived thinking it was me all this time, I'll not care. But it they effectively liked it, bye girl.
 

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Using tentacles for reproduction is rather BS as well. Even if I went along with that, it doesn't excuse why other tentacles use other points of entry, as is standard.:)
sound better than being fucked by a catman and the women doesnt feel anything but pleasure, when in reality a cat dick is covered by spike-things that hurt the shit out of a female pussy when he go out XD
no limit imagination as long fapping is behind i guess.
 

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I generally agree with the points that have been raised, I would add that it is important that the love interest be more sexually satisfied by the main character than any third party, whether man or beast.
 
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What kind of game is it? Imo in a corruption game, tentacles are more than welcome.
For me a dating sim like Sisterly Lust is a different matter, though. I don't like if the MC romances a girl and she gets physical with someone else or if she is involved in rape/cuck/degrading events, either consensual or not. Even worse, if she loses her virginity. It already happened to me to drop games because of stuff like that.
As long as the MC is not emotionally attached to the girl, I don't care.

For instance, if a monster abducted Alina, I would probably be OK: she is a slut, my MC doesn't see her as girlfriend material, he just has fun with her.
If something bad happened to Bella or any other sister, though, I would not enjoy it at all. Quite the opposite. Also this would make Sisterly Lust an NTR game, which is not what I intended to play.

Btw: aren't rape/non-consensual events violating Patreon TOS?
 

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Quite the contrary, a girl that can take on tentacles, dogs, horses, orcs and whatever else comes for her is a keeper. I have a more open opinion regarding sex in games, if the woman is happy, Mr Tentacle is happy, nobody gets hurt, then it's all good. On the other hand, I dislike NTR and girls who are involved are no good for me, not because they had sex with another person/creature, but because they betrayed the trust the MC put in them.

For other stuff, a girl is never worse or better to me based on virginity, the existence of previous boyfriends, sexual taste, race, or sanity, but I keep away from girl representing fetishes I don't like such as lolis, dickgirls, preggos, family members and furries.
 

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I'm the one of this "extremely protective" guys. (That's why I prefer female protag. games)
Two things can happen to ruin girl in an erotic VN for me:
- NTR (obviously)
- forced relationship at the beginning of the game (like when I don't like/don't even know this girl, but MC somehow accept her as his girlfriend - for example: Audrey from "Thirsty For My Guest").

To give an example, a major part of the female cast gets abducted by some monster and a little while later you end up finding them entangled and penetrated by various tentacles (belonging to the monster), requiring you to save them. Would that diminish their sexual appeal because of the penetration?
In my case..it depends what will happen next. How is it gonna affect this girl? If she's gonna turn into slut after that - I'm done. If that tragedy happen more whan once in game - I'm done.
Tragedy like this could be a good thing. It could create strong bond between player and this lady. And that can be a strong energy boost for your game's plot...Come on guys, we all like being knights in shining armor, we like when girl is depending on us.

btw. Perverteer, I like your work. Sisterly Lust was my first VN from f95. You're doing a great job!
 

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no agree with that ... when you check animation (like SFM source filmmaker stuff and else ) , i almost never see tentacle.
meanwhile, i can see shit tons of animation includ dogs, horse and else.
also WOW porn are extremly popular and still never use tentacle but all the beast from wow (such as tauren, wolf etc..).
i m not fan of bestiality (weird right ? lol) unless its the contrary of your opinion XD , unless they look pretty humanoid.
i can't stand in front of a dog fucking a women or a horse or any other things that arent at least a minimum human.

for me, a girl get ruined in a game at the moment she turn into a puppet. when she is litteraly a full slave without mind. turning a girl into a bunch of flesh and meat just good to fuck is what push me away from a game and kill a girl.
a girl being a bitch is not problem for me, as long she is still "human" on her and not a total piece of sexdoll to fuck with no logic or emotion or else. as by what, where , who and how... i dont care alots as long its not over exaggerrated in monstruosity XD
A female character can become submissive and lascivious without becoming a mindless sex toy. They can still have a personality of their own, just one transformed by the reordering of their priorities and change in perspective.
 

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Quite the contrary, a girl that can take on tentacles, dogs, horses, orcs and whatever else comes for her is a keeper. I have a more open opinion regarding sex in games, if the woman is happy, Mr Tentacle is happy, nobody gets hurt, then it's all good. On the other hand, I dislike NTR and girls who are involved are no good for me, not because they had sex with another person/creature, but because they betrayed the trust the MC put in them.
This x100. That's why I like Legend of Queen Opala so much, its one of the only games that does it right. A lot of shit happens to your party in the games, but your party never actually betrays you. I wish more games did then rather then the typical NTR story.
 

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This x100. That's why I like Legend of Queen Opala so much, its one of the only games that does it right. A lot of shit happens to your party in the games, but your party never actually betrays you. I wish more games did then rather then the typical NTR story.
This x100.
 
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As I'm confined to my bed for the coming weeks, I'm thinking a little about the future after Sisterly Lust. My current project is very much geared towards lust fulfilment for the MC (player), so the girls have no serious rivals and the sex comes relatively easy. NTR as a fetish doesn't interest me, so it's unlikely I will ever include it in a project.

My next VN will contain a lot of sex as well and the MC will get his fair share, of course. But I've been wondering though at what point a girl in an erotic VN becomes ruined to a player. Some people are extremely protective of "their" girls and hate it when another male character even chats up the female element. So I'm interested at what point you consider the appeal of a girl being lost?

To give an example, a major part of the female cast gets abducted by some monster and a little while later you end up finding them entangled and penetrated by various tentacles (belonging to the monster), requiring you to save them. Would that diminish their sexual appeal because of the penetration?
Rape doesn't ruin a female character for me, say in your tentacle example it happens in a fantasy or sci-fi setting (the only two acceptable settings for such a monster) it wouldn't ruin the females that got abused at all...

UNLESS... The females admit to loving it, and how the monster was better than the MC, and proceed to humiliate him in comparison to the tentacle, at that point fuck them ! It's still playing on the NTR trope that the MC is inferior to something that to any sane person should be awful, and creating feeling of jealousy and impotence.
 

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As I'm confined to my bed for the coming weeks, I'm thinking a little about the future after Sisterly Lust. My current project is very much geared towards lust fulfilment for the MC (player), so the girls have no serious rivals and the sex comes relatively easy. NTR as a fetish doesn't interest me, so it's unlikely I will ever include it in a project.

My next VN will contain a lot of sex as well and the MC will get his fair share, of course. But I've been wondering though at what point a girl in an erotic VN becomes ruined to a player. Some people are extremely protective of "their" girls and hate it when another male character even chats up the female element. So I'm interested at what point you consider the appeal of a girl being lost?

To give an example, a major part of the female cast gets abducted by some monster and a little while later you end up finding them entangled and penetrated by various tentacles (belonging to the monster), requiring you to save them. Would that diminish their sexual appeal because of the penetration?
to be honest that wouldn't diminish their appeal but it would make me question the dev and drop the game as fast as Brody from SL would drop his soap in prison
 
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A female character can become submissive and lascivious without becoming a mindless sex toy. They can still have a personality of their own, just one transformed by the reordering of their priorities and change in perspective.
how many times have we seen that in actual existing game ?

ALMOST NEVER.

every-fucking-time i see a game with a female protagonist, wich is suppsoed to be a stupid low IQ bitch or an extremly arogant dominatrice bitch, they always.... and i say always... end as a slut cumbucket in less than 30 minutes of gameplay.
and add to that that most of female protagonist games end with the girl being forced to fuck or suck to progress and turn her as a complete slut sexdoll.

i m not against the concept. but most of time its soo badly made that its ridiculous to see a dominative girl turning into a slave that easily.

most classic "standard" exempl of this kind of situation is present in most of incest game, where MC spy on his mother in bath, then mother see him, talk with him blababla, then MC continu tod o that and the mother turn into a slut being liked to be watch under shower.
i would honestly prefer to see the MC get his face hardly slapped by the mom multiples times. and make MC work wayy hard before that to happen. maybe its just me tho, but i never saw a women getting spy under the shower by a guy (whoever he is) falling that easily into a slut show.

soo yeah, corruption and all is good. but for the love of god, if you plan to add this in your game, please please do it very slowly and hard (without shitty grinding) to progress througth the story.
unless you plan some fuckfest easy slut transformation like most of games.
 
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most classic "standard" exempl of this kind of situation is present in most of incest game, where MC spy on his mother in bath, then mother see him, talk with him blababla, then MC continu tod o that and the mother turn into a slut being liked to be watch under shower.
i would honestly prefer to see the MC get his face hardly slapped by the mom multiples times. and make MC work wayy hard before that to happen. maybe its just me tho, but i never saw a women getting spy under the shower by a guy (whoever he is) falling that easily into a slut show.
Most incest themed games is just plain horrible in the story department though, and those that maybe try do a more realistic approach the creator get a verbal trashing for things moving to slow etc. Corruption in games is best done slow, and not through repeat grind. Like do the dishes every day followed by a foot rub and whatever.

What really tickle my nerve, is when you as a player get denied the choice but get railroaded into situations that doesn't necessary fit your progress so far.

The more freedom you want as a player to do your own choices, the more work on the creator though.
 
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As I'm confined to my bed for the coming weeks, I'm thinking a little about the future after Sisterly Lust. My current project is very much geared towards lust fulfilment for the MC (player), so the girls have no serious rivals and the sex comes relatively easy. NTR as a fetish doesn't interest me, so it's unlikely I will ever include it in a project.

My next VN will contain a lot of sex as well and the MC will get his fair share, of course. But I've been wondering though at what point a girl in an erotic VN becomes ruined to a player. Some people are extremely protective of "their" girls and hate it when another male character even chats up the female element. So I'm interested at what point you consider the appeal of a girl being lost?

To give an example, a major part of the female cast gets abducted by some monster and a little while later you end up finding them entangled and penetrated by various tentacles (belonging to the monster), requiring you to save them. Would that diminish their sexual appeal because of the penetration?
I'm not a big fan of NTR either, and only in rare cases has it been something I could handle, when it's appropriately handled, or easily avoidable... It's only when it gets thrown in my face with no way, right off the bat, of either avoiding it and/or getting arid of it quickly, do I really find it completely annoying and desire to stop reading/playing right away... I do understand there is a minority of folks out there, that love that crap, but I'm definitely not one of them...

I find that story based visual novels, even the corruption/mind bending ones, need a balance of romance along with the lust and sexual desire... Having a balanced mix of various character types, some easy to seduce, some needing time to seduce, and some just throwing themselves at you, feels better then just some quick masturbation material... It's the journey that makes an erotic VN/Game fun and enjoyable, and if it is all just a bunch of women throwing themselves at the protagonist one after the other, non-stop, it becomes repetitious and boring... I believe the best ones have substance and longevity and entertain, while also feeding into your needs along the way...

It really boils down to what you enjoy the most as the developer... If you are not enjoying what you make, outside of money, then it will end up showing in the content... It's a labor of love... You have to love what your doing, otherwise it's just an exercise in repetition...

If you want to have some characters come and go, as long as it makes sense in the story, and isn't detrimental to the plot, then it becomes an intricate part of the story you want to tell... You will always have some folks who may dislike a decision you make, but they just need to learn to deal with it... It's your baby and will grow as you see fit...

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