I like teasing games. (done in a good way, not milky way as some devs do)
and I like slow progress, so kissing, strip, touching, squeezing, some molesting, petting, but also hugging, showing affection, being kind, helping her to get love points, well u get it. there can be a lot that is not penetration.
another part is characters and the relationship (whatever that is) if master/slave, if boy/girl. about the drama, how to make an impression to get the girl, theres so many layers that we can explore before any sex. is she a dom or sub, what kind of play do she likes, flowers or a funny guy, or gentleman or a piece of shit that treat her as a whore.
if we get sex immediately whats the point of introducing anything I wrote above?
and if u know me, I like corruption, and that also can be many layers. to ask her change clothes to something more revealing, or tell her to touch her own boobs (above clothes) while letting Harry watch, shaming act, making her do kinky stuff. from telling her to bend over while someone is close by so they maybe see her booty, to a more daring thing like order her/dare her to go to a boy, and tell him, do u want to touch my boobs?
so slow is best if u ask me.