Well, few things....
(1) If it true that BD was place as caretaker for his grandfather for last 6 years, need to give him the respect and space. Being a caretaker takes a lot of energy and effort to support the needs. With the balance being the caretaker, supporting his partner (wife/girlfriend) and new born child.
(2) Dealing with someone within the family or close ones who passed away, need to give them space. Need to allow the individual to find their grieving.
(3) Also if BD is the executor of the will, that will take a lot of work. Which means, he may need to get a lawyer to help execute his grandfather's will, taxes,and etc. Hopefully there will be no complication with the internal family members and etc it shouldn't take long to progress the will and have it all squared away with in number of months and the estate closed within less than one calendar year.
(4) As we all know that BD still learning to limited his personal life information from F95, Patreon, Discords, etc. No one is perfect, however majority of the people have done the same thing as BD.
Overall, BD has a real life and he need to take care of himself and his family. WVM can wait, since BD has pointed out that it +5 year project for him. Yes, we are aware that BD has delay few times for random reason (weather it valid or not). It is his project, he owns that project, and he delivers his project update when he believe it ready to be release.
We just need to learn to be patience. Which it is one of the most common issue today that most of us have little or no patience. Since most of us uses F95 to explore other VN/games, there are plenty of other projects to check out while we give BD his space and time.
Overall, I am still looking forward to his update whenever BD believe it is ready to be release. Since it been a while, will need to start from the beginning anyway to help refreshing the memory again.
Have a great day and be safe...