This is exactly what has happened. The anticipation has been built up for so long that he's worried the update will not be enough/worth the wait for some. It's ready but he's not ready to potentially face negative feedback in his mental state.
So let's summarize it very simply.
BD needs help.
In the meantime, he has looked and found some for his personal problems.
As for the game, it's going to be difficult.
He doesn't need and probably won't want a writer, because it's quite simply his story, which he wants to tell the way he likes it, he doesn't need someone for the graphics or coding side either.
What he could use is someone for "public relations".
Someone who just keeps this crap of eternally crying people off his back.
Someone who tells him that posting so much of your personal life on the internet might not be the best decision either.
The sad irony of the whole thing, he provides his MC with all this help dozens of times in the form of endless girls, and it takes him years to seek even the slightest help for himself...
I hope he eventually finds what he's looking for and that he doesn't lose sight of his own little family with all the shit that's going on in his life.