you are wrong there, I have nothing better to do, and see a very huge amount of what is posted here, so is just a choice, and who says we don't try and make people drop the whole fetish thing? I have been in a couple of discussions about it myself, but the whole point in both is, don't be an ass.
In the fetish stuff is, don't demand that people change their game just because you don't like something, give your opinion, and how it could be better for you, but don't make demands, if it isn't for you, move on, also semantics, people argue a lot of semantics, for example, that a wife fucking her husband before having anything to do with the Mc is NTR, and other shit like this.
This one, the one about update comes from, in my part at least, the fact that the person asking might not have the time to spend half an hour or more looking for the answer, or not know how to look in the first place, it might be someone that just checked in because they noticed that no update was posted in a while, but in the end, this one is simple, the person didn't come here looking for a confrontation, they didn't make demands, they didn't say anything bad about the game or dev, they asked for information, and were insulted and berated as a response.