ah yes i mean september lol
It is a focus, but XCL is much earlier in development than mature games such as newlife, so many of the core systems are still coming into place.
Relationships and different types of NPCs are definitely on the horizon / roadmap. But it's not something that can happen overnight
Here are some details about how the relationship tracking works under the hood:
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When I start opening up the city map, there will be a proper dating system. But everything comes in its due time