Still think, this is strange. Maybe it depends on the ability to identify with characters and immerse yourself in the content. When it comes to porn movies, that ability is non-existent for me, I don't identify with anybody, and seeing men in porn movies for me is about as annoying as an NRT game.
Games are slightly different, at least if the protagonist is presented in a somewhat relatable way hopefully with first person perspective. And yes, it makes a difference, if the male character involved is the MC. So I do play some male protagonist games, but I don't enjoy them anyway nearly as much as I enjoy lesbian games. When it comes to games with female protagonists, I like the lesbian parts ONLY and avoid all male characters if somehow possible.
Women are somewhat different than men, when it comes to porn, as women react to the arousel of the people (or animals) stronger than to who is actually involved.